Cheryl: Many people are curious about this, Higg(in)s. You commented on it once. Will you comment on it again?

Higg(in)s: The very first thing to do to improve this situation is to change your focus. Your choice of words matters. People may turn against you often, but not always and that is important. The more you focus on those who do, the more you invite similar behavior from others. Shift your focus to the pleasant interactions you have with others and draw more of those into your experience.

The next aspect of this phenomena is one’s energetic ‘vibe’. There is a movie the entity watches from time to time: Kelly’s Heroes. In one scene the men are asked to do something extraordinarily dangerous and one of the men makes a negative comment. Donald Sutherland’s character, Oddball, interrupts saying, “Always with those negative waves, man. Why don’t you dig how beautiful it is out here. Why don’t you say something righteous and hopeful for a change?”

The response people are having to you is about your energetic offering: your waves. Begin now to focus on that which is beautiful and hopeful. Train yourself to expect the best, not the worst. When you begin to exude this new type of wave people will respond more positively towards you.

Comment from Cheryl: Higg(in)s could not draw the entire quote from Kelly’s Heroes from me, so I stopped our communication long enough to find the quote online.