Monthly Archives: November 2023

Something Nice for Thanksgiving

Cheryl: Tomorrow is Thanksgiving in the United States. Will you tell us something nice for Thanksgiving? Higg(in)s: Giving thanks is a powerful tool in your creational toolbox. What a wonderful thing it is to set aside a day for gratitude. … Continue reading

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More About Choices

Cheryl: I asked you about making choices that will result in a more positive future for us. (Posted November 20, 2023.) I was surprised by your response because I thought you would talk more specifically about intentional creation. Higg(in)s: Intentional … Continue reading

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Choices

Cheryl: Will you talk about how to make choices that affect our future in a positive way? Higg(in)s: Every waking moment you affect your own future. The emotion you experience with each thought has the potential to return to you … Continue reading

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Check-In

Higg(in)s: Are you finding something to appreciate about yourself every day? If not, establish a daily routine of doing so. Those around you will begin to treat you better. You will be stimulated with good ideas to make your days … Continue reading

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What Stops Aggression?

Cheryl: The news reports this morning show a peaceful protest in Washington, D.C. turning aggressive. I have come to believe what you say about aggression not stopping aggression. What does? Higg(in)s: Peace. Peaceful humor. Peaceful words. Peaceful acceptance of differences. … Continue reading

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More Clarity Regarding My Difficult Coworker

Cheryl: Regarding my questions that past few days about a difficult coworker, yesterday my workday actually flowed along pretty well. I found myself smiling for no apparent reason. In some ways my day flowed more pleasantly than before the negativity … Continue reading

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Fixing the Mess I’m In

Cheryl: Regarding your posts of November 13 and 14, 2023 about my difficult coworker, how do I fix this mess now that I’m in it? Higg(in)s: Keep that Mona Lisa Smile pasted on your face. Continue to define the qualities … Continue reading

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Managing a Difficult Coworker

Cheryl: Regarding yesterday’s post (November 13, 2023) how did she (this difficult coworker) arrive in my work location? I have made a very nice list of qualities that I would like to see in my co-workers and have reviewed it … Continue reading

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Bragging

Just bragging because something good happened today. My mother started blogging for something to do during Covid.  She has maintained livingtheaginglife.com for three years now.  Living the Aging Life is in her words, “random thoughts of an astonished great-grandmother,” and is … Continue reading

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Someone at Work Is Focusing on Me Negatively

Cheryl: Someone at work is focusing on me negatively. When she first arrived as a new hire she focused negatively on others, but her acid ways are now focused on me. As you know, I pay attention to my attitude … Continue reading

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