Higgins 10/22/25

Let’s bring us all together.  We are working through your spirit guides as we always do through you.  Let us be all of us in the same place together.  It makes us a stronger, more powerful unit. 

To respond to the question of peace, we have to remind you of the emotional spectrum, the range of emotions you can experience: on one hand there is negative energy, the slower vibrations like guilt and despair; on the other you feel powerful and positive emotions such as bliss, love.  Peace feels pleasant, comfortable, contented, security, surety, all of the feelings that bring a settled heart.  When a person is sliding down from positive to negative emotions, you are losing control.  When you get lower than hope, you are no longer in positive vibrations.  If you feel like you are slipping into these negative vibrations, a portion of you begins to panic.  Something about you knows that anger is the (final) emotion that is powerful. If you are slipping emotionally then the question is: Do you want to catapult yourself the other way?  When you get to anger, you often retaliate with anger b/c it is a powerful emotion that gives you a sense of control.  When you are sliding towards fear, you often retaliate in anger.  Fear is powerless.  Anger is a really good emotion b/c it keeps you from sliding into those powerless emotions.

Peace is a very powerful creation point.  What we think we are hearing from you is that you do not yet understand your creative potential and how to do it.  We see anger used as a creation point b/c people see and understand how to do it but some people do not understand how to use their creative potential from peace.  Peace is many emotions but when you are at peace you feel contentment, quiet, soothed, emotions of positivity in your peacefulness.  From a peaceful place, your inner self and your mind are like still water.  You can see through it, move through it, utilize it.  It is a powerful creation point while when you are frustrated, confused, lonely, angry those emotions are muddy, unclear emotional frequency.    When you come to peacefulness, calm the waters, security, surety, contentedness, those are clear emotions and from there you can better look at what you want and create more specifically.  The value of peace is the clarity of mind you have with peace that helps you create more powerfully.

P:  When I think of peace, I feel safe.

H:  Yes, safety and security, centered in calmness.

Friend mentioned using laughter.  Laughter is light-hearted.  If you can make a joke in a tense situation, it can bring people together.  Humor is an excellent tool.  It brings people together. 

P:  I can understand humor like poking fun but ridiculing and shaming I have a problem with personally.  Ridiculing doesn’t seem helpful.    I understand humor but not ridiculing.  Reading a lot of Wayne Dyer lately and he said if someone is being hateful it is b/c they are hated.   

H:  Humor has many levels.  You are correct when you say that some people think mocking is funny and humiliating someone is funny.    We understand that for you who are well beyond that, it doesn’t seem useful.  However, the difference between meanness and humor is tight.  If you are beginning to feel powerless, any kind of humor makes you feel more powerful.  So a person who is mocking or humiliating they are only trying to help themselves feel more powerful.  So in that vein we encourage you to applaud them for their efforts.  Yet, we also understand that mocking and humiliating is not useful b/c you are putting someone else down.  Remember the Law of Attraction states that this other person is inviting the mocking and humiliation in some way.  So as they learn how to finesse their own energy then they no longer invite that behavior from someone else.  We totally understand where you are coming from in your comments about mocking humor  and you are correct.  We also know that everything is a two-way street.  There is no “this person is doing this to me.”  There are no victims.  The person who is making the base humor is trying to uplift themselves.

Anger is another thing we want you to applaud.  We are not saying accept these behaviors, we are not saying to like these behaviors but we are saying if you can understand these behaviors, you will better understand the mocker and the mockee and know that both have the same guidance that you have, from eternal sources you have.  They are powerful and when they understand that they can shift this themselves.  We are also not saying that if you do not like it you should continue to spend time with it.  Entity’s husband watches a tv program she does not like so she goes outside or does something else.  We encourage you to find some way to stay stable in your emotional self when you witness this.  Find your own stable point. 

Compassion:  is a very useful tool.  Compassion is your assistant at learning to stay stable when things go haywire in someone else’s life.  If you are witnessing a friend who just cannot seem to pull it together, it does not matter how clearly YOU can see your friend’s missteps. What matters is that that person feels supported, not enabled.  There is a difference between allowing them to be where they are in their process and assisting them in staying there.  Compassion is loving and kind.  It is supportive in a way that you understand the truth of their being—that they are beautiful and powerful and that are having a blip on the screen (kind of like the stock market goes down and then comes back up.  They will be back up, and they will be up more quickly if you are compassionate and supportive.  We are not saying to encourage them to stay there.  We are saying acknowledging the difficulty is sometimes very useful.  It is not always useful to listen for a long time to all the why’–why this is someone else’s fault– and how they’re not treated right and those kinds of things.  It is useful for you to see them in their wholeness, to encourage them with positive thoughts and words.  And envision them as whole.  If you can find words that the other person can hear, speak them.  If you cannot find words the other person can hear, then a pat on the back and a                                         “I’m so sorry, my friend” is good enough.  You do not have to fix them b/c they are not broken.  It is hard work when you see someone struggling along at something you are already very good it.  Does not help for you to pick away at them.  What helps is for you to remain a good and staunch friend and support them, and compassion is that most excellent tool.  

P:  Would you talk more about extending that compassion to yourself? 

H:  It is very easy to forget yourself as you extend these things to other people and not remember that you are worthy of those things also. When you are able to extend compassion for yourself, when you are able to love yourself, you begin making great progress in being the person who you came here to be, b/c when you have compassion for yourself you stabilize yourself in the most difficult of times and get back to peace – which is your clear launch pad for your best creating.

P:  I am interested in the word “witnessing.”  We came here for these times and the fact is that we are witnessing amazing times.  I guess I need some comfort and compassion to help me through this witnessing, and I need to know more of how to extend compassion for myself.    

H:  You are witness to one of the greatest, if not the greatest, opportunities for humankind.  (You are in a point in time in evolution of man that is much like the game Crack the Whip. You on Earth are at the end of the whip being cracked.) It is very difficult to stay stable.  Not one of you here is inexperienced or here for the first time on earth.  This is not the time for that. This is the time for people who are well practiced and excellent creators.  As you witness these events occurring on Earth, it is very hard on the soul and you are all beings of beauty, light and love.  Each of you has the capacity to express the light side of yourself and the negative side.  Expressing your negative side is painful to your soul.  As you learn to have compassion for those who are experiencing such pain – think what it must be like for those who express negativity. What had to have happened to that beautiful spirit to throw them so off balance that they would bake a baby in front of its parents? 

Think about what would have had to happen to someone to get so off balance   that they throw their weight around and threaten other people and their  livelihood?  On some level you know it is contra to the beauty of your spirit.  It is hurtful to do it and hurtful to see it.  In developing compassion for yourself it is helpful to remember that and it is helpful to know that you are here during an extraordinarily difficult time.  It is an extraordinary game and you need loving tender kindness, too. 

We talked, friend, about holding things inside you as though you already had them.  Hold inside you compassion for yourself and for others as though it already exists = like lifting weights you will get stronger and stronger as you practice holding the compassion inside as though you already have it.  Think it through if you can’t feel it in your heart.  You can use your mind to reason it through and bring some compassion inside as though it already exists for you.  Can you do that? 

P:  Knowing that it is hard on the soul being a witness is very helpful.   

H:  We remind you that nothing is being done to you but being done for you.  No matter how awful it is, it is opportunity.  You wanted this opportunity to grow and to expand to be stable. What is the joint where you spring from one point to the next? 

P:  Fulcrum (a point on which a lever rests or on which it pivots, like a teeter totter.  We are going to jump into a mega lesson for you.  As eternal beings this is a lesson you need to assist you in your creation.  You are creating in physical.  But there is a lot of creation in non-physical, and you are going to school and trying to advance.  This process right now helps your eternalness garner what it needs for the next aspect of creation–not just as human beings but as eternal spirits.  In a certain way you have a fulcrum point-one end of the Teeter Totter is down and you are struggling and this is your learning to stay balanced, peaceful, centered and compassionate and you can then balance at the balance point – fulcrum- and the other side goes down.  You are trying to tilt that to the other side when you are on the down side so that you as eternal spirit are learning to balance yourself — not just for this lifetime but for you what is coming up for you as non-physicals.

P:  Could it be possible that this person who has the whole world looking at him right now has chosen this role as his soul self and is here to show us in very clear terms how not to be? 

H:  Yes.   It is not just possible.  It is what is going on. 

P:  He has chosen an early life of possibly being terribly abused as a child and the model of money being the only thing that matters, so he’s playing that out for this lifetime. 

H:  Yes, which is why we continue to stress, will you let him be the best president you ever had or will you make him the worst president?  It is your emotions that you hold that will help him remember who he is.  Remember the story of The Little Soul and the Sun?  One soul said to the Little Soul, “I will come down to earth with you and I will do something for you to forgive.  To do this thing I will have to forget who I am and the beauty of my being to be able to do that to you.  And, if you forget who I am then we are both lost.”  This is exactly that.                                                                                          

Meditation.

It is new to be challenged.  You knew you could do it.  You have the help you need and you will succeed.