Offering from Higgins:
Life is really very easy.
When you dread something like going to a party for example, you set up a vibration that gives the Universe a message. The Universe always responds to the things you tell it. Moreover, so does your body. If you do this sort of thing with enough gusto you will eventually draw unto you from the Universal Warehouse health issues that will keep you from attending that thing you dread. You will get a headache or some other ailment and thus have a ‘good excuse’ for not going to the party.
When you do this sort of thing you are pretending that life is hard. It isn’t. If you don’t want to go to the party don’t go. If work is making you feel awful find a new job. If your relationships suck the life from you extricate yourself from them.
Life is not hard. It is easy. The reason you pretend yourselves into sickness is to have a good excuse not to do things that do not feel right to you but that someone or many someones have coached you into believing are right for you. What is right for someone else is not necessarily right for you. Only you have the wisdom to know what is right for you.
Follow your own inner wisdom and stop pretending. Life is much easier than most of you allow it to be.
Received August 24, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington