Higgins:     You are not a victim. As such, when you feel discomfited the thing to do is to address that which discomfits you. Find a beneficent solution and implement it.

What you do NOT do is keep talking about how awful that thing is.

Talk about your beneficent solution for it. Focus on your beneficent solution for it and do not waver from your implementation of it accept to make it better at every opportunity.

Received May 17, 2017