Offering from Higgins:
(Note from Cheryl: this topic regards interpersonal relationships.)
Look for solutions. Solutions are found inside yourself. Solutions do not involve cooperation or agreement from another person. If your solution involves another person then it is not a solution because solutions are always about you and who you are within the context of any given situation.
Whatever your situation, and it may truly seem to be caused by the action (or lack of action) of another person, there is a solution and the solution always lies within self. Solutions are always kind. Solutions always bring relief. Solutions are always available if you are willing to suss them out.
Received January 3, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington