Ask Higg(in)s

Question:  Regarding intentional creation, if I have a concrete idea of what I want like I want a new car or I want to write a book, then there are steps I can take to achieve those things.  But what if I what want is something like I want to be treated better by other people?

Higgins:  As with all things we encourage you to increase your vibration surrounding the topic and then you will be treated better.  That is the broad answer.

If we take a narrower view then we may suggest some techniques for achieving your goal of being treated better by others:

One–envision yourself in a situation that has occurred that was upsetting to you.  Now envision yourself in that same situation but this time make the outcome suit your vision of being treated better.  This will assist you in changing how people treat you in the future.

Two–before you meet with a person who is difficult for you think about some things that you honestly admire about them.  That will initiate some positive vibration between you before the meeting occurs thus promoting the possibility and probability that they will treat you well.

Three–dress yourself each day and present yourself always as a person deserving of being treated with respect and courtesy.

These are three ways you can begin now to vibrationally align with being treated well by others.

Received May 9, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Question:  Will you discuss intentional creation of our lives?

Higgins:  Your physical lives are created by your thoughts, words and deeds and your beliefs regarding them.  The more strongly you believe a thing the more quickly that thing (and/or metaphorical equivalents of it) will arrive in your life experience.

Should you choose to create purposefully then all you need to do is choose what you think about.  Words and deeds should then support your ideas.  If you will consistently turn your thoughts, words and deeds toward the successful achievement of your idea then it will eventually appear in your life experience.

That thing of your desires will be yours when you align vibrationally with it and that is the belief part.  You must believe you can have that which you desire or the achievement of it will elude you.

Let us provide an example:

The first thing you do is think of something you’d like and let’s say that you’ve decided you’d like to improve your relationship with your spouse.

Once the decision has been made to improve the relationship and you are committed to the decision, impulses will be offered by your broader being that will, when acted upon, lead you towards an improved relationship with your spouse.

The important parts of creation are: firstly, receiving an idea of what it is you want to achieve and secondly, aligning with the achievement of it and alignment occurs with total commitment.  When one of you physicals decides to do something and is fully committed to it then the achievement of it is only some number of achievable, sequential action steps away–in essence, only a matter of time.

Received May 8, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

When something bad happens to  you, something you don’t like, look at it very hard. There is good in it for you.  By searching your feelings carefully you will find a surface emotion and beneath it the real reason the situation has disrupted your happiness.

Address the issue from the perspective of the real reason in sincere and honest truth. While you may or may not solve the problem you will address the emotional/vibrational offering that you made that drew the uncomfortable situation into your experience in the first place.  Doing this with kindness and honesty will reduce the opportunity for similar situations to arise in your future.

Received May 6, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

Occasionally, things that you don’t want will happen.  How you greet them, the manner in which you cope with them directs your future.  Whatever has happened- the car breaks down, an illness arrives, an argument erupts- deal with it swiftly in the best way you currently know how.  Whatever the situation is clean it up thoroughly. Get the ugly situation behind you as quickly as possible.

(Quickly is relative and depending on the situation it may take mere minutes or many months to thoroughly clean up the problem.)

As you cope in the best way you currently and immediately can manage allow your emotions to register with you, whatever they may be.  Intend to stay within your center point of balanced connection with Broader Self as you respond to these emotions. Acknowledging current emotions is paramount in moving on to better emotional ranges thereby inviting fewer and fewer ugly events into your life experience.

Received April 28, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

What did you do today to move yourself toward that which makes you happy?  Do you consider yourself a victim of the events of the day or do you snatch a minute here and there in which to pursue your dreams?

Received April 28, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

We wish to further the previous conversation regarding making change in your life.  The same technique applies to anything you’d like to develop within your life experience. Whatever your goal simply do something each day towards that goal. You don’t need to spend much time upon it, just do it consistently.

This gentle approach works very well for long term goals such as the nurturing and development of relationships.  It also works very well for those who are not closely aligned with their goal because the steady small steps will bring one into vibrational alignment over time.

As one comes into alignment with one’s goals, one becomes clearer and may begin to focus more attention upon the desired outcome.  Of course, the more focus you give a thing the quicker it will manifest in your life so look towards the positive with good and clear intention.

Received April 25 and 26, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

An excellent technique for making change in your life is to pick a word that represents the change you want to see and then do some thing every day that represents that intention.

Let’s say that you’d like greater harmony in your life.  Do something, no matter how small it may be, every day to promote harmony in your life.  It may be very simple.  Size of the action doesn’t matter.  Intention does.

Received April 25, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

Vibration held by you is reflected in your surroundings, relationships, financial condition and health.  If you do not like your life as it is then look inside yourself.  Decide who you are and practice being that.

Each of you is born with an inner knowing of what is right for you.  Call it instinct if you will, whatever you call it each of you has it.  Follow it.  Pursue your heart’s desire.  It may be scary at first, stepping into the unknown in pursuit of your dreams but we assure you it is the only way to experience the grandest vision you hold for yourself.

Received April 25, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington