Higgins on Abortion

Question:     Dear Higgins – Christmas greetings!!!

This has been a strange Christmas preparation time.  In the midst of pondering the birth of Jesus I have been involved with discussions around abortion.   There are those who are having to make difficult life decisions regarding following through on pregnancy.   Options of abortion, adoption, raising a child are present.   From your realm what does abortion look like, and mean?      Here on earth abortion is tangled up in moral, emotional, physical, and spiritual concerns.   It is a choice that has many consequences, affecting both the mom, the dad, and wider family.   Please give some coaching on how to think about abortion in the widest sense of freedom and responsibility.

Is it a mute point to suggest that if Mary had decided to abort Jesus the world would have missed a great teacher/human being?   Is this even a relevant point?

Thanks for taking this question on, Higgins.  I am glad for you to reframe the questions  so you can respond to them more accurately.

Higgins:     From our perspective the game of life has no wrong moves. There are plays made that feel better inside and there are plays made that feel worse, but none are wrong and that includes the choice to terminate a pregnancy.

To review one’s life and, with perfect hindsight, allow that if only this had been done then I would not be in this situation now is not a helpful one. One must only make forward plays in the game of life. So, if right now a woman chooses to terminate a pregnancy because to carry the pregnancy through to fruition carries with it an unbearable heart burden then from our perspective she is making a good choice.

Fear is a huge motivator, bigger even than anger. By returning to center and allowing the eternal power that she is to flow fully she can move away from fear. If she is able to regain her place of center she may well find other options to be equally viable.

To return to center remind her to direct her flow of energy from head to toe. Allow the full flow of energy to ground in the Earth.

As regards the fetus:

Each of you is eternal. The soul that is perceived as ‘I’ does not usually jump into the body until the moment of birth, although there are quite a few eager souls who jump in early.

Each of you comes forth with plans for spiritual expansion. Who is to say that a soul awaiting a body is not desirous of learning to wait? And what better sort of assistance than for the potential mother to terminate the pregnancy?

We remind you that in the pre-birth time plans are often made far in advance. Additionally, while you are in physical there is a portion of sleep time dedicated to planning each next portion of life. A potential mother considering abortion would, in her dream time, be communicating with the potential child. The child would know what was happening as it played out and would be agreeable to the situation.

Jesus was committed to a life on Earth. Jesus’ pre-birth agreement was to come forth and share what it is to be human as fully as possible. He chose parents who could and would assist him with living into the fullest expression of this goal.

Friend, have you considered that Jesus, in a life experience prior to being Jesus, was aborted? Of course he was. Most of you have been aborted either intentionally or by spontaneous abortion at least once.

All of that notwithstanding any woman, any person, can instantly regain their emotional footing by drawing their energy back to center. What a marvelous expansion for this woman if she can do this and carry the pregnancy to term. Her life would be, by necessity, a series of centering to pull herself away from fear and into her center. Beautiful, yes?

What a blessed problem to have. One to be cherished.

Much love is held for you and for her here, in the non-physical realm. Regardless of her choice the most important thing for her is to go forth centering and re-centering. You do see the beauty of this expansion situation? Whether she aborts the fetus or keeps the fetus she will be ‘forced’ to center and re-center to maintain her happiness throughout life. Magnificent game, life. And masterful pre-planning on the potential mother’s part for her to achieve her desired soul expansion during this life on Earth.

Received December 22, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Not Allowing Another to Play the Part of Victim

Question:     On the topic of ‘Victims’. I invariably make people angry when I hold the philosophy that there are no victims and that to look at someone or ourselves as if they/we are is dis-empowering. Also when I feel someone playing the part of a victim or sympathizing with someone as if they are a victim it can raise my ire.
So my question is also related to compassion. Compassion as I see it…is not feeling sorry for someone, but is more useful as an empowering practice. For example; recently I had someone living with me who was really playing into the role of a victim, thinking they could shirk responsibilities and consideration because of their “special’ problems or circumstances. I responded in a way that was not ‘feeling sorry’ or could have been looked at as being insensitive, by bringing up their responsibilities and lack of consideration. I felt as though I was being compassionate (even as I was angry with them for their wanting to be a victim) by not treating them ‘special’ as if they had a problem or were a victim.
They did not get it and I just looked and sort of felt like a bully (at first). But does that make sense what I am saying.
what are your thoughts on that.. Showing compassion and empowering victims….

Higgins:     We find it understandable that a person would feel angry at first, upon hearing a new idea that shakes and shatters long-held belief. Your society spends a good deal of time and energy finding victims and victimizers and glorifying them on television, in books and in the news. Virtually all of you with access to these sources has some level of belief that there are those who are somehow bad, or at least do bad things, to undeserving others.

When a person first becomes aware of thoughts or beliefs not their own these new ideas can often feel scary. We remind the reader that fear is a very low vibration and the program humans operate within is to always move toward the higher vibration. Whether consciously or unconsciously all of you do this. In this situation, anger is the higher vibration.

This being so, we suggest that the asker of this question learn to applaud the recipient in their unconscious effort to feel better. Moving towards feeling better is the most important thing any of you ever do. Let them go ahead and be mad. The asker would remain stable, centered in their own flow of energy. Allow the storm to blow past. Then proceed with compassion.

(From post April 7, 2012–Compassion is an emotion in the vibrational range of love and deep appreciation and encompasses the emotion of deep understanding. Develop compassion by directing your thoughts towards gentle understanding and acceptance of the world around you.)

We acknowledge that sometimes proceeding with compassion doesn’t work and firing back in anger does work. We do not encourage this. However, like vibrations attract like vibrations and a person who is feeling the part of victim may not be able to meet compassion but could meet anger. Then, from anger a mutual understanding could occur.

The most important understanding we wish you to take away from this response is an individual is always best moving towards what feels better. To sink to ire and anger is negatively impactful to the asker of this question. In the above situation the disrespect and lack of consideration on the part of the ‘victim’ should never lead the other into mis-creating. Hold steady in compassion. Gently yet firmly state your story. The other must conform or move out of the house but the asker must remain steady. The asker may not allow the disrespect and lack of consideration to continue because those two things do not synch with his stable and unremitting emission of compassion and caring.

In this way, the asker can show compassion–be compassion–and yet not empower the other in their ‘victim’ mode while empowering them towards their wholeness.

Received December 21, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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The Kindness Paradigm (14)

Finding Our Spiritual Gifts

Higgins said in a recent post, “The single most important aspect of human happiness is the discovery of and subsequent expression of a person’s spiritual gifts. Thus the focus of the system and indeed, the climate of world culture, must be to support the discovery and development of each child’s gifts, even if the child is 109.”

As a planet, as a world society, we are consumed by a ubiquitous desire for change, something that leads us away from the current trend of domination into a new paradigm where the standard is participation.  Change starts as desire and manifests when that desire becomes a clear vision. Our common vision within the Kindness Paradigm focuses on the development of personal gifts supported by the virtues of kindness and compassion.

A personal gift or spiritual gift is something each of us is born with. It is a talent, a thing we have a love for or some persistent interest. It is our passion. We may or may not have obvious talent for our gift at first. What we have is interest. This is a thing that causes us to perk up when we think about it or to feel down when we think about the opposite of it.

Finding one’s spiritual gift is about finding one’s passion. It is about finding one’s happiness because happy people thrive.

See http://stress.about.com/od/happinessandpositivity/a/happiness_and_health.htm for an article regarding happiness in relation to health and prosperity. The article references the following sources:

Sources:
Borysenko, J.  Minding the body, mending the mind.  Hay House Publications, 2007.

Holden, R. Be happy: release the power of happiness in you. Hay House Publications, 2009.
Peterson, C. A primer in positive psychology. Oxford University Press, Inc., (2006).
Seligman, M. E. P. Authentic happiness: Using the new positive psychology to realize your potential for lasting fulfillment.  Free Press, (2002). 

We discover our gifts by following our interests through to their natural conclusion. Some of us have gifts that are obvious early on. A four year old violin virtuoso is one of these. Most, however, are not so obvious nor so obviously marketable. As is true from time to time, we don’t know what we want until we see it so these not so obviously marketable skills will find a welcome reception once humanity sees them.

By helping one another discover their gift, their passion, their joy we are creating happiness. In so doing, we create a world where everyone, regardless of age, IQ or physical ability is an active participant. Expansion is part of the continual evolution of humans and it is expected that each of us will find that our talent forever expands into something new. This unfolding is desirable, creating the opportunity to continually evolve and expand into happiness.

Cheryl Jensen, December 15, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Clarification on Comet Ison

Question:     What kind of player was it (Comet Ison)? Some say that it was re-seeding earth with new organisms as it might have done had all mankind been wiped off the face of the Earth possibly. Any of that ring true?

Higgins:     Seeding can happen that way. Let us suppose for a moment that nuclear holocaust destroyed all living things and damaged the topography of Earth. The nuclear radiation would be allowed to degrade. A massive ice chunk embedded with living organisms could then be ‘launched’ towards Earth or other receiving planet. Plants and small living organisms would then populate the Earth. When it was once again habitable for animals and humans then those species would be brought in by hosts who would nurture them until they were able to care for themselves.

Comet ISON was more like a space iceberg. It calved and in its travels was flung around your sun.

Received December 11, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Who are the Farmers?

Question:     Who are the Farmers?

Cheryl:     Higgins often states that we are not here accidentally/by evolution. That much like Van Gogh painted many versions of his famous water lilies God made lots of versions of man. Each newer version is also a spiritual advancement, like a new model of car has new options. So we are seeded here, planted sort of, and tended by what Higgins likens to farmers.

December 11, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Questions About the WingMakers

Question:     Are the Wingmakers the same as or related to the “farmers?” Are they descended from one of the original seven sons (and, if so, which one?) or are they a mixture of all seven lines, as humans are? Are some of them a part of Higgins?

Higgins:     The WingMakers are descended from a mixture of the original seven sons of that which is called God. Several WingMakers contribute to that which is Higgins, some from among Lyricus. And yes, they are the farmers.

Received December 11, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Creating Community for the Soul Self

Question:     I am leaping into being a ‘new human’, meaning at the very least those that are spirit-lead/soul-lead. Part of this leaping is being and/or gathering in community beings of similar joy and abundance. What kind of school/center/community is needing to be created so humans can evolve into their soul selves.

Higgins:     The single most important aspect of human happiness is the discovery of and subsequent expression of a person’s spiritual gifts. Thus the focus of the system and indeed, the climate of world culture, must be to support the discovery and development of each child’s gifts, even if the child is 109.

Life is designed to be an ever unfolding adventure and one’s livelihood is expected to be derived from following one’s interests. Therefore, a system that supports the development of those things that interest and uplift the individual will produce happy people who are (because happiness breeds these things) healthy and financially stable.

The choice to develop spiritually may stem from the pursuit of happiness but is not a requirement in the discovery and development of one’s interests.

Received December 10, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Soul Lead Same as Following Highest Emotion?

Question:     I am leaping into being a ‘new human’, meaning at the very least those that are spirit-lead/soul-lead. Being soul-lead/spirit-lead…is this the same as following one’s highest emotion?!

Higgins:     Following one’s highest emotion is a part of being soul-lead/spirit lead. Intuition, inspiration and impulse are also methods of communication that a soul-lead/spirit-lead person would follow. One can follow emotions regardless of intention. One will have best success following intuition, inspiration and impulse when their intentions are clear and pure.

One very easy place to start in clarifying intentions is to state, “I choose to move towards happiness, fulfillment and satisfaction.” One may develop their own statement. To do so, choose words that resonate within the heart. What is important is choosing to be true to one’s own Self. This is sort of like the Harry Potter scene when Harry has the sorting hat upon his head and is afraid to be put in Slytherin. Harry says over and over, “Not Slytherin!” The hat ponders for some time then announces, “Gryffindor!”

One chooses one’s direction whether consciously or unconsciously. We suggest choosing it consciously. Life is more fun that way.

A note…we do suggest choosing in the positive. Rather than stating, “Not Slytherin!” we would say, “Put me in Gryffindor!”

Received December 9, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Is Website Hype or Significant?

Question:     Many sites like this: http://soundofheart.org/galacticfreepress/content/galactic-free-press-update-more-surprises-ahead-and-shocking-events are spreading information….. but is it all just Hype or is there really some significance??

Cheryl:     As with the WingMaker’s site, this site is large and we briefly reviewed the site together but by no means did we read it all.

Higgins:     ‘More surprises ahead and shocking events’ seems to pretty clearly sum up what has been happening on Earth and what will continue to happen. We appreciate the vivacious attitude this website conveys towards the Shift of the Ages.

We would like you to understand that each of you creates your own future. Your response to the events of today dictates what your future will bring. If you would rather not attract shocking events into your life then do not focus upon the horrendous. Do what you need to do to pass through the event then focus on that which pleases you.

Example for clarity: A natural disaster flattens a town on another continent. Of course this is unsettling but there is little you can physically do to assist. Financial donations to assist relief efforts can be helpful and provide the donator a sense of helping in some way and that is useful on both sides. However, brooding on this will not help you. Many of you do not understand that brooding is actually harmful to you and potentially harmful to those you are wishing to help. Instead, relax and send good wishes their way. Positive prayer, peaceful meditation…these are things that are helpful. Believe in the inherent power of the people actively affected. Believe in their inherent wellness. Believe in their ability to rise from this into something greater and more wonderful than before. They, like you, are God incarnate.

You physicals like to think that you are victims. In some way, this provides relief…it removes responsibility for the bad things that occur. Yet there are no victims. Life is created by what you think about and by how you feel about what you think about.

Stop focusing on the negative. When you focus on the negative you only create more negative. Thus you effectively victimize yourself.

In essence, all these ‘surprises and shocking events’ are created by mankind and will cease the moment mankind chooses peace by being peaceful.

Received December 8, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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What does Higgins Think of the WingMaker’s Website?

Question:     I’m curious what you and Higgins would have to say about
the information on this website: http://wingmakers.com.

Cheryl:     I read quite a few pages and checked out a couple of other websites including lyricus.org however the volume of information is significant so I did not read it all. Higgins agrees that I read enough to give them opportunity to answer your question.

Higgins:     The essential information contained within this site is absolutely true. Physical beings from other planets have been communicating with people on Earth throughout Earth’s ages. While communication is not limited to governmental agencies, communication is primarily with leadership organizations simply because the agency(ies) and individuals communicated with must be able to disseminate the information.

Information is released indirectly and in small amounts. It is more palatable this way.

A portion of the Wingmaker’s site is devoted to discussion of time travel. Time travel is a reality and certainly within the capability of humans. However, we want you to understand clearly there is no need to time travel to change your future or prevent war. You have the capacity to do that now, in this moment.

To have peace, you must be peace. Radiate peace from your heart center. Each of you is a kind of magnet attracting exactly equal to that which radiates from the heart. No amount of time travel can fix a hard heart. Heart’s of compassion will bring the peaceful world you seek. Peace will be instantaneous the moment your heart’s allow it.

Received December 7, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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