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How To Not Be A Victim

Question:  I have been reading the information presented on not being a victim. I feel as though I have allowed myself to be victimized since I was a child. I did everything my parents wanted and I allowed myself to … Continue reading

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If We Shouldn’t March…

Question:  I liked marching in that protest. I felt good about myself. So even though I don’t know what to do to solve the problems our nation faces, while I marched I felt that I was doing something to voice … Continue reading

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Angry Emotions

Question:     How do you acknowledge long held angry emotions? Higgins:     The first step to acknowledging deep seated anger is awareness. One first must recognize that there is anything to acknowledge. Deep emotions that have been ‘stuffed’ for long periods of … Continue reading

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Do What You Can

From Higgins: Some things you just can’t do. Differently stated, sometimes there are things you need to do that you do not feel up to doing. Still, you are not a victim. Do what you can. Victim is out as a … Continue reading

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You Are Not A Victim

You are not a victim. If you are not victim, who are you? Once you realize that you are not a victim you must revise your own view of self. There are no longer excuses for not achieving your desires … Continue reading

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Not Allowing Another to Play the Part of Victim

Question:     On the topic of ‘Victims’. I invariably make people angry when I hold the philosophy that there are no victims and that to look at someone or ourselves as if they/we are is dis-empowering. Also when I feel someone … Continue reading

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