Question: Why do I get angry?
Higgins: Anger is an emotion that produces energy. It is sort of an Emotional Danger Zone. Anger is designed to stimulate you towards action in those times when you are slipping towards a feeling of powerlessness.
Received June 5, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, USA
Question: My husband has now been dead for 7 months. I am still trying to get my life back. I had open heart surgery last December and am now in the process of selling my large home. I can’t seem to get over my anxiety that I will make the wrong decisions. I’ve always had someone in my life to talk things over with, but not now. How and when will I feel confident again? I am 74 years old and can’t imagine living the rest of my life alone.
Have you some helpful words that can take me forward?
Higgins: The first thing to do is collect your energy. A person feels drained when their energy isn’t flowing properly and solving this will help every aspect of life.
Energy should flow from just above the head, along the spinal column, into the ground ending just below the feet. Direct your own energy to do this by thinking it to be so and even drawing your hand from your head to your feet. This will help set up the correct flow so you can make better, clearer, more confident decisions.
We’d like you to stop reading right now and practice this aligning of energy. When you feel a little stronger, a matter of seconds to one or two minutes, read on.
You have experienced two major life events very close together. Assess what you have come to appreciate about life relative to the loss of your husband as well as the significant surgery your body has undergone. We expect you to discover that you value pleasant company. You already know that having someone to talk things over with is important. What else do you value? Do you value your body more than ever before?
Identify those things that you value. This should sound like, “I value having someone to talk things over with,” rather than, “I miss my husband.” Although we’re sure you do miss him (and we encourage you to grieve thoroughly) this grief period is also an expansion period while you dream up what you want for the next segment of your own life. The quicker you identify what is important to you the quicker you will see positive change.
Remember that your age has absolutely nothing to do with how marvelous a life experience you can create for yourself. It is easy to see how others live their life (whether they live it well or not) and unconsciously model your own life after theirs. We want you to intentionally choose a life that suits you rather than (unintentionally) following society’s life model which may not suit you. Selling your large home, for example, we see as a marvelous decision. A large home is too much for one person to care for and still have plenty of time to develop an expansive new life. We encourage you to dream about your new place thoroughly so that when you arrive in your new home it has all the amenities and attributes you love.
Next, we want to remind you that this is a process. It often takes a year or more to get used to your new wings. After you get the hang of looking for the things you value and choosing the life of your dreams the process becomes fun as life unfolds in unexpected yet miraculous ways.
Life is a game. Learn to play it and you shall have a wonderful adventure.
Received June 6, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, USA
Question: How do I stop depending on others for so much? I don’t feel capable of doing anything on my own, and deal with constant anxiety. I am pushing people away. Any advice?
Higgins: This is a beautiful question. It is important to have recognized that not feeling capable is not right for you.
You are, and each of you is, completely capable. The Earth experience is designed to be a safe and fun place where each of you can stretch the limits of your being-ness. Unfortunately, the game is very difficult to play without directions. Verbal and written instructions for the game were once readily available but over time they’ve been altered, lost and even intentionally destroyed.
Regardless of what has happened in the past now is the time to remember the instructions and master the game. (In a nutshell that is what the whole 2012 thing is about.) That is why you and many others are struggling with this sort of issue. Life doesn’t feel right and in fact, it isn’t.
Let’s remind you of Who You Are by reviewing directions for playing The game.
You are an eternal being of light. You are eternal consciousness and like that which you call God you are a creator of things. That is what the Bible means when it says you are created in His image. Additionally, it means that all things are part of a whole and the whole and the part are the same thing. In the physical realm all this means is that everything around you is metaphor for something that has been created in the mind of man.
The eternal consciousness that you are decided to come into the physical realm of Earth for the fun of it and also to sharpen your skills as a Master Creator. Each of you comes forth with some kind of gift and the tools necessary to play. The Eternal You stays focused in non-physical while at the same time putting forth a portion of itself into physical, that’s you. The two yous made agreement about having fun and what things would bring a sense of pleasure unto you. What is a happy, positive thing for one may or may not bring the same sense of pleasure to another.
In this body you have the ability to communicate with that Broader You and you do so all the time. Emotions are the communication tool used most. Also, you are guided by impulse and intuition. Emotions will never steer you wrong. Intuition and impulse can become off balance but emotions will always be true.
Emotions are offered by the Broader Self relative to the pre-birth agreement you made together. Negative emotions indicate that in some way you have strayed off course from the agreement and positive emotions indicate that you are on track with that agreement.
You (the questioner) feel negative emotion because you are not focusing on your life experience the way you agreed to do. Your Broader Being will never stop issuing these negative emotions as long as you persist in focusing on yourself and your life the way you are. Your Broader Being disagrees with the thoughts you are having about yourself intensely and that is why you feel so bad.
The agreement you have with You is that you are capable, bright, kind and cheerful. The agreement you have with You is that there is nothing you cannot achieve and that while here in physical you will look at the life that comes to you as a sort of living data system. Each life experience is to be sifted through and your agreement says you will have positive feeling to stimulate you towards that which is right for you and will be pleasing and you will feel negative emotion when you receive data that leads you into mis-creating.
Mis-creating means you have allowed yourself to notice the negative aspects rather than the positive aspects of a thing, an experience or even a thought.
Once you have determined from your emotions what makes you feel pure, powerful and positive set your attention to those things. Thought, word and action that bring you closer to achieving those things will make you feel good and life will be enjoyable.
(We know this is getting lengthy. Stay with us.)
A feeling of dependence and anxiety are both far from the Truth of You. Remember you are capable and ingenious and have access to all the tools you will ever need to make a wonderful life for yourself.
People draw away because you either shove them away as you try to regain the balance you know is right for you or the negativity you emit repels them. The result is the same.
We encourage you to center your energy. This is a quick way to regain your balance. Energy should generally flow from just above the head to just below the feet. The energy that runs through you is designed to ground in the Earth. Gently draw your energy back from the energy thieves in your life. Use a gathering motion with your hands and arms…imagine Jesus drawing the little children before him saying, “Gather around me little ones.” You will say instead, “Energy stay with me.”
Once you feel a little stronger direct your energy to flow from head to toe.
You should feel better in seconds to minutes. Once life energy is flowing properly it is much easier to make decisions about what’s next. Please remember that nothing about this life is an energetic one way street. If you are a person in a mode to (negatively) give away energy there will always be another around to feed off you and suck you dry. The hard part for you is to stay stable while the others who are used to taking from you stabilize their own energy. You will need to practice centering many times a day.
From this more centered place begin making decisions. Consider what is wrong in life and make choices that bring relief. Example, the house needs to be vacuumed. You hate to vacuum but leaving it messy feels worse than cleaning up. Clean up. Example, a significant change is needed in your life. You know what change is needed but are afraid to take action. The thought of making the change makes you feel sick inside but the thought of what life will be like once the change is initiated feels like relief. Go for relief every time.
This last paragraph really is the sum of what we encourage for you. Start to make decisions for you and stop making decisions because other people want you to want to make them. Said another way, make decisions because your insides tell you to and not because your friends or family or society have molded you into wanting what they want you to want.
It may seem ugly at first. We assure you, though, that taking the first steps may be hard but taking them leads to the life of dreams and not taking them leads right where you already are.
Sunshine, we adore you. We know you have the capacity to do what needs to be done. We also know you already know what you need to do. Doing it seems overwhelming perhaps but as we said, not doing it leads to where you are right now and where you are emotionally right now is not life giving.
Blessings, Friend, as you sort out this magnificent journey.
Received June 5, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington
Question:
Thank you for giving such opportunity. I have really serious issues and question regarding MY LIFE.
I’m a channel, and I went through ascension once in this lifetime, however, now I stuck in the lowest possible position (disability, very limited income, no date, my daughter doesn’t treat me well, can’t speak for more than 2 min because of vocal cords problem…), and with all my physical problems even if I try to do something on this level (I mean working) I get even worse physical condition. I’ve used so many energetic programs trying to resolve issues with health and finances, but effect was very little (if any). Looks like something preventing me from any actions on 3D level. I’d like to find out what is blocking me and what I really need to do in my 3D and spiritual lives to get to MASTERY.
I attached here some of my artworks I’ve done using channeled patterns.
Higgins: We will start with some statements for clarity:
1) Channel means that non-physical beings communicate with you. Through you they speak to others in the physical realm.
2) 3D and physical realm are the same…they refer to the Earth Adventure.
3) We are uncertain what ascension means to you. It is a word that has unclear energetic definement.
You state that you are “stuck in the lowest possible position (disability, very limited income, no date, my daughter doesn’t treat me well, can’t speak for more than 2 min because of vocal cords problem” and we want you to understand a couple of things:
1) You are not stuck although it may feel that way. Actually you (unwittingly) hold yourself in this position.
Think of humans as beach balls. A ball can be held underwater or even tied down so it stays underwater but the instant that the ball is released it will pop back to the surface and float. Once you learn how to release yourself you will pop back to the surface.
2) For the significantly greatest portion of your lives you are given complete free will and no intervention occurs from the other side that is initiated by the other side. If, however, one of you has a significant commitment (typically from pre-birth) that has not yet been achieved and you take action or intend to take action that will prevent the achievement of that commitment then the other side will step in to prevent that action.
A scenario could look like this: one of you is about to step off the curb into the street in front of an oncoming vehicle and are pulled out of harms way by some unseen force.
Occasionally a scenario is more like this: one of you has an idea or plan that will prevent the achievement of the pre-birth agreement and unseen forces prevent accomplishment of the goal thus in a way forcing you towards achievement of the pre-birth agreement.
Remember that intervention is unusual, even rare. What we’d like you to consider is that you are not interfered with or prevented from achieving the mastery you desire. Instead, these difficulties in your life are the pathway towards that mastery. Furthermore, your intentional pre-birth arrangement is playing out perfectly. You experienced something wonderful (ascension) and recognized that there is more to whatever it is you are. In order to master what it is to be human you arranged for yourself this wonderful opportunity for discomfort that would create in you a desire to master the physical experience thus reawakening to the Truth of Who You Are and returning yourself to that blissful feeling of ascension.
From this wonderfully uncomfortable, difficult and beautiful location in your life we encourage this: relax. Relax about life the way it is today with money not flowing and health so difficult. Today, life is what it is. We say this because how you respond to today’s life experience dictates what your future will bring. If you fret and worry over today’s events you will only bring more things to worry about.
Second, you are losing energy to these things that worry you. In a general way, energy flows from a primary source located just above the head, down the spinal column and into the Earth ending below the feet in the Earth’s crust. (That is why it feels so grounding to walk barefoot on the Earth and to spend time out of doors…it is most natural.) Energy is being sucked away and that makes you feel weak and ineffective. Also, other people sense the weakness and will sometimes treat you badly if they themselves are out of alignment with their personal Truth.
Think of yourself as a garden hose. The water is turned on but because the hose leaks from several locations there is very little water coming out the end. Realign your energy so it flows head to toe by intending something like this, “My energy flows in harmony with the physical expression of the Truth of My Being.” Use your hands to direct the flow from head to toe.
Additionally, you may need to reclaim energy that is lost to those not treating you well. Do this by saying, “Energy, stay with me.” As soon as you feel stronger ( a matter of seconds or minutes) then direct your energy to flow as in the previous paragraph.
Try these things for today. We will follow-up with more after you’ve had a chance to collect yourself.
Received June 4, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington
Offering from Higgins:
We are noticing the rioting and unrest among you.
It seems that the leaders of the countries of the world are expected to make some sort of magical changes for the betterment of the citizens but as citizens many of you are unwilling to make your own changes; changes within self that would open the door for positive life experience. Change does not come from the leaders of your respective countries. Change comes from within. If you as an individual will change your own heart offering a door will open for more people to follow suit. Leadership will eventually follow.
Anger is only a tool to bring one to action when one feels victimized. The aspect of this that goes unrecognized by most is: there are no victims. If there are no victims then there is no need for action in anger.
Take action in pleasure. Take action in joy. The world in general may still look a little messy but your immediate world will begin to look brighter right away.
Received June 2, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, USA
Question: There seems to be so much trauma occurring…I’m talking about the hurricanes, wars, bombings, shootings…what can a single individual do to help? The problems seem so big and I feel so small, like anything I could do would be insignificant or too little too late.
Higgins: In the Grand Scheme of Things you are small. However, your individual contributions are not insignificant.
Creation occurs in immediate time meaning right now you are creating your personal future. All thought, yours and everyone else’s, radiates out into the Universe and is held in a virtual warehouse. Once a thought creation is in the warehouse it may be withdrawn by you or anyone else an infinite number of times. Withdrawals are made primarily by default meaning you don’t know how you get what you get. These withdrawals can be either positive or negative.
Removing something from this warehouse looks to you like a life event. For example, you and your friends want to go see a movie so arrangements are made and away you go to the theater. Let’s also say that you have made clear to yourself and the Universe in general that you value personal safety. When you are absolutely clear that you value safety you will never, ever choose to see a movie where a gunman is planning to open fire. Never. It defies law. You can set your clear intention as little as a few minutes, sometimes seconds, before an event occurs and change the outcome for the positive.
Holding this clear intention for safety is an intentional use of the warehouse. You are clearly expecting positive events regarding personal safety. Muddy intentions do not work well. Clear intentions work well.
The best thing any one person can do to positively affect the world around them is to make clear your own intentions. Do you intend safety? Do you intend to be kind? Do you intend your own prosperity and good health? Do you intend to maintain fulfilling relationships? Being clear on your own intentions is the first and most important thing you can do to help. Remember that by making clear your intentions and desires you create your experience. Your neighbor’s house may crumble under hurricane pressures but your house will be skipped over. Variously, your house may also crumble but you will be on vacation on a sunny beach somewhere.
The important thing is that you create a pleasing life for yourself and simultaneously place in that warehouse of possibility pleasing events for anyone else who chooses safety, kindness, prosperity, good health or fulfilling relationships.
Additionally, each time you act based on your own intentions, kindness for example, you create new positive possibility that is stored in that warehouse for you or anyone else to latch onto. In this simple way positive life experience is guaranteed for you as long as your intentions remain clear and un-muddied and positive life experience is also available to anyone else who seeks the same things you do.
This means that while you may not stop a war, a hurricane, a shooter or a bomber you may well make available the means for another human being in a frightening situation to make a withdrawal of safety in their time of need.
Envisioning and enjoying a great life for yourself, a life lived gently and kindly, is truly the best thing you can do for all of mankind.
Received May 21, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, USA
Question: I feel like I am not getting any closer to my goals.
Higgins: The rules that apply to creating something small, like a pair of shoes, are the same rules that apply to creating something larger, like an empire. The thought and action process on your end are the same. Creating something like an empire, depending upon the starting point, can take quite a bit of time. Time is the part that gets you down. We are certain that small things, equivalent to a pair of shoes, are occurring regularly. When they do be certain to acknowledge them. Recognition of the achievement of a small step forward feels good and stimulates the Universal flow to bring more good things.
Remember that just because you cannot see the imminent arrival of your desire nor even understand the direction from whence it may come does not mean it isn’t almost there. Many things come directly in a route that is understandable but many things await that are hidden around blind corners.
If you do not give up, if you do not change your mind there is nothing that cannot be achieved given enough time. So keep trying until evidence convinces you that you are on the right track. Expect the arrival of good things, follow-up on leads and in all cases enjoy the journey because the journey is all there is.
Received May 17, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington
Question: I can’t find a job I can even stand.
Higgins: We always encourage you to move towards the life of your dreams and we encourage you to dream big. Let us remind you, however, that it is easiest to achieve your dreams by starting small.
The discouragement evident in your comment draws us to remember this fine quote from a friend of the entity through whom we speak, “There is no such thing as bad weather. You are either dressed inappropriately or have a bad attitude.”
If a person’s attitude is generally relaxed about things then even the most menial or odious tasks are taken in stride. This is what we encourage for you. Relax. Take any job. Do your best at the tasks presented and move on.
Take for example a hike in the woods. Occasionally it is necessary to put one’s feet in the mud but one must do so to receive the delight of the hike in its entirety. Along the way one may bruise some Skunk Cabbage and the smell is sometimes unpleasant but it is the adventure of the hike, the beauty of the scenery, the comradery or perhaps the solitude that make the hike the hike.
And so it is with your job adventure. There may be some mud and Skunk Cabbage along the way but that is not a reason to avoid the adventure…that is the adventure.
Life is all about attitude. Look for the best in every situation because how you respond to life’s events today determines what presents to you tomorrow.
Received May 8, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, USA
Question: I don’t feel very kind. I know what to do to appear kind but I don’t feel kind.
Higgins: We have stated in the past that compassion is the pathway to kindness. If compassion is the pathway to kindness what then is the pathway to compassion?
Excerpted from our post on April 7, 2012: “Compassion is an emotion in the vibrational range of love and deep appreciation and encompasses the emotion of deep understanding.”
We went on to say, “Develop compassion by directing your thoughts towards gentle understanding and acceptance of the world around you.”
Acceptance of the world around you. That is the key for you. It is not necessary to agree with anything you see or hear. It is, however, necessary for you to allow every single thing you see or hear to exist. While it may take some practice to become comfortable allowing all things to exist whether you like them or not, it is in this same practicing that you will develop emotional space for kindness to exist within.
We also acknowledge the words, “I know what to do to appear kind…”, and encourage you to appear kind even when unable to emotionally link to the kind action. We encourage this for two reasons: doing the kind thing usually feels better emotionally than doing the unkind thing (and everything you do should be directed towards you feeling better), and practicing what you want to be leads to being what you want to be. (Think of a professional dancer or ball player, they didn’t get good wishing to be good they got good with consistent and continual practice.)
Received May 7, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington
Offering from Higgins:
It is helpful to remind yourself from time to time that you are energy at the base of things. Flesh is secondary.
Consider that you, as energy, flow primarily from above the head to below the feet. Sometimes this flow of energy gets off course, the way a river eddies or changes course. It is of utmost importance to continually maintain the river of energy in a head to toe course. When the energy that you are is off course or stuck in an eddy life will not flow its smoothest.
When you are tired, frustrated, irritable or working too hard relax. Instruct your energy flow to get back in alignment. Breathe for awhile. Feel the energy return and notice how the mind clears.
This is a simple way to realign with your personal source of guidance. Life will smooth out when this technique is applied and a life lived in alignment with this eternal wisdom is rewarding and fulfilling.
Received April 27, 2013 at Lake Goodwin, Washington
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