Category Archives: Kindness Paradigm

When Someone Else Does Not Want Me To Follow The Call Of My Heart

Question:     What when someone else does not want me to follow the call of my heart? What when someone preaches that my lesbianism is not OK? How should I respond to that? Higgins:     Each one of you came forth with … Continue reading

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The Kindness Paradigm (10)

While we as a people move through this shift from a paradigm of domination to a paradigm of kindness we must learn to represent ourselves truly rather than being swayed by others. We must be the same kind person all the … Continue reading

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The Kindness Paradigm (9)

Nurturing and being nurtured leads to feelings of safety and security in both mind and body. Feeling safe is important because feeling safe leads to feeling expansive and growth is what the human experience is all about. The Kindness Paradigm offers the … Continue reading

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The Kindness Paradigm (8)

Nurture One Another In the Kindness Paradigm we help uplift others and no matter how old we are we nurture one another like we would care for a newborn. We help people feel good about themselves. From this well-spring of kindness that … Continue reading

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The Kindness Paradigm (7)

Kindness, in the Kindness Paradigm, is defined as arising from the understanding that what affects one affects another thus nurturing a desire to create harmony through positive word and action. In order to shift from our current paradigm of domination into a paradigm … Continue reading

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Holding Expectation for Outcome

Offering from Higgins: Resistance is created by holding expectation for outcome. Learn to observe without expectation for outcome. This will create an opportunity for you to participate differently in the game of life. This new, non-judging, no expectation participation in … Continue reading

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The Kindness Paradigm (6)

Developing compassion Compassion is the pathway to kindness. Compassion is an emotion in the vibrational range of love and deep appreciation. Compassion encompasses the emotion of deep understanding. A person develops compassion by directing their thoughts towards gentle understanding and … Continue reading

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The Kindness Paradigm (5.5)

After rereading The Kindness Paradigm (5) on Accepting and Allowing I realize I left some information out…the part about why acceptance and allowance are important. Refusal to accept and allow all things is futile. Resistance actually makes things worse. Imagine having … Continue reading

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The Kindness Paradigm (5)

It’s been a while since I posted on The Kindness Paradigm so let’s go back and review what we’re up to: The Kindness Paradigm is based on the belief that there are certain desires ubiquitous to all mankind yet recognizes … Continue reading

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The Kindness Paradigm (4)

Relax Keep in mind that the goal of the Kindness Paradigm is to develop in each of us an understanding of what makes us feel most alive. Then, when we find what makes us feel most alive we want to … Continue reading

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