Ask Higg(in)s

Question:  You said that we have a base line vibratory level and that is the one we tend to fall back on when under stress (?) – did I get that correctly?  And, I can’t read my notes – and you can’t either probably ! but what I wrote was “the fall-back emotion is the easiest one to . . . . .   Then, once you have committed to making your life the best it can be, your broader self helps you meet your lower emotions head on so you can experience them fully.  Can you fill in that blank above??  or restate it in a different way that says the same thing.  Hope this makes sense.

Higgins:

The fall-back emotion is the easiest one to achieve. It rises to the surface the quickest.

Angry is an oft used fall-back emotion. First angry, then after a little time to process, a different and less defensive emotion is offered. Do you see yourself in this, Friend?

Then, once you have committed to making your life the best it can be, your broader self helps you meet your lower emotions head on so you can experience them fully. Emotions that are not experienced fully get stuck in you. Stuck emotions develop into difficult life experiences and eventually into ill-health.

Have you noticed how many times different people do a similar thing to you and it is O so irritating!? That’s because you draw unto you the irritating thing from people who have it to offer. Find your truth in there. Meet it head on. Experience your emotion regarding it fully. Then you will move on into a next higher baseline vibrational level. That is how you move up the emotional scale and that is how you continually improve your life.

And Friend, this is the work of Masters for it stings to look inward and find it was yourself all along who has caused all that pain. Everyone else simply was willing to assist you in every way possible.

Received January 3, 2012 at Everett, Washington

Question: Hi Higgins, on Wednesday evening last you all were talking about dealing with people who may not be treating you very kindly.  A statement you made was something like this:  ”  Removing yourself from the situation or person for now may be necessary, but that is a master’s last resort.”  If the other person just won’t be nice or kind and continues to be abusive, then how can that change?  Isn’t it best not to keep going back for more and more abuse and being a victim?  Why is this a last resort instead of a smart move to keep oneself out of that vibrational level?

Higgins: Whenever you are in conflict with another human being what you are actually doing is showing each other your respective spiritual weak spots. If you are in harm’s way then of course we expect you to move out of harm’s way. But if you are not in danger then what we said stands.  A master will listen with compassion to what is being said. A master will find their own truth within the words then clean up their own vibration so that a similar situation will not be drawn into their experience in the future.

Remember, Friend, that a Master shuns no one.

Received January 3, 2012 at Everett, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

(Note from Cheryl: this topic regards interpersonal relationships.)

Look for solutions. Solutions are found inside yourself. Solutions do not involve cooperation or agreement from another person. If your solution involves another person then it is not a solution because solutions are always about you and who you are within the context of any given situation.

Whatever your situation, and it may truly seem to be caused by the action (or lack of action) of another person, there is a solution and the solution always lies within self. Solutions are always kind. Solutions always bring relief. Solutions are always available if you are willing to suss them out.

Received January 3, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

Many of you are practicing being non-judgmental. Our knowing is that greater success occurs moving towards something desirable. Pushing away that which you do not want is much like trying to get tape off your fingers. Attempting to pull the tape off just brings it to stick upon a different finger until you find something like the edge of the garbage liner to stick the tape to.

Since life is all about attraction all the while you are thinking about non-judging, judging is sticking to you like the sticky tape. Once you find something else to stick to, it is easy to release the judgment for you are attracted to something else.

Compassion is the answer to judgement. Practice compassion and your judgements will leave you as surely as leaving tape in the garbage by sticking it to the liner.

Received January 2, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

On this inaugural day of 2012 we’d like to make a suggestion. Take a few minutes of your time and choose some words that define your perfect life. Do it this way:

Speak aloud or in your head, “Creator of the Universe and all that dwells within I hereby choose these qualities to enhance my life as it unfolds:” If you choose not to address the Creator directly you may say, ” This is what I intend for my future:”

Then allow your mind a free flow of thought. Words will come to mind such as harmony, grace and fulfilling relationships. Choose all the positive words you want and string it out this way:

“Creator of the Universe and all that dwells within I hereby choose these qualities to enhance my life as it unfolds: harmony, grace, fulfilling relationships, safety, kindness, gentle adventure, compassion, prosperity, pleasure, light-heartedness, ease, laughter, beauty, grace, flexibility, strength, good health, happiness, satisfying friendships.”

Once your flow of words is exhausted stop and allow the universe to absorb your desire. Then go on with your life knowing that all is well and your future now contains your heart’s desires. Walk forward into it with confidence and positive expectation.

Received January 1, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

Question: Why is it so hard to throw old clothes away?

Higgins: Almost always when you have difficulty throwing a thing away, clothes or anything, it is because you have vested energy into the object and throwing it away causes you to lose energy. The energy loss is tangible and that is what causes you to resist tossing those items you are through with.

One option is to thank the item you are ready to release for its good use, bless it on its way and as you place it in the garbage or donation bag ask for the energy you’ve left in it to return to you. It will happen upon the instant and you will feel a degree better.

More rarely, the thing itself has other ideas for its future. All things are sentient and have preference and if that seems to be the case then re-home it when the time is right.

Received December 28, 2011 at Everett, Washington

Question: How does one find their way back from loneliness?

Higgins: Our answer for this and for all things is to live in your Truth. Grieve over your loss, grieve in your loneliness, whatever the reason for it, and when it feels like it’s time to start living again seek your purpose.

Each of you has a purpose for being and finding ways to express your unique and wonderful purpose will bring you joy and it will bring you connection with like-minded others. Living your purpose will bring such joy, such intense and abiding satisfaction that you will feel full and complete and loneliness will abate.

Received December 28, 2011 at Everett, Washington

Offering from Higgins:

Don’t make a move until you clarify your heart. If your heart is pure and your emotions clear you will always make good choices.

Received December 27, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington