The Kindness Paradigm (31)

Posted on March 3, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

Living in a Kindness Paradigm creates for us a challenge. We may no longer place blame on others for the ills of the world. We must instead ask the difficult questions: Why did you murder that man? Then we must listen with love in our hearts for the answer.

When we hear the answer we must be prepared to live the answer and therein lies the challenge. We will no longer be able to say that someone else needs to do something or that our  government needs to do something. As individuals we will have to live the answer.

While we surely do not want to be killed, putting murderers behind bars is not the answer. Solving the reason they murdered in the first place–that is the answer. And while I understand that people who are starving need to eat, feeding the starving is not the answer. Solving the reason they are hungry in the first place–that is the answer.

In the last few years there have been many uprisings of the people against their government? Why? For a better life. We must, as individuals, make it our mission to create wonderful lives for ourselves and simultaneously make the lives of others we touch wonderful also. We do this by developing compassion in ourselves. Compassion feels like love. True compassion feels like love for the murder and for the victim, for the oppressor and the oppressed.

Cheryl Jensen, March 3, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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The Kindness Paradigm (30)

Posted on March 1, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

Recoiling from what is ugly creates ill in the world. When you are able to look at ugly and feel love pulsate within, you have achieved compassion.

Cheryl Jensen, March 1, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

 

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Keep Trying

Posted on February 28, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

Message from Higgins:

Whatever it is that you wish to accomplish it is yours. If it isn’t falling into place easily keep trying. Use each failure as the clarifying data that it is to bring greater clarity to your dream.

Continuing to expend effort without clarifying and re-clarifying with each new piece of data may be likened to spinning your wheels in mud. You will use lots of energy getting nowhere and this is discouraging.

Use the visioning capabilities of the mind to pre view yourself achieving your goals. Remember the movie, Groundhog Day? Bill Murray just can’t die. He lives the same day over and over trying one thing and then another until he perfects who he wants to be.

You do that. Each day try a new technique or a new approach until finally you are satisfied with the outcome. You physicals become frustrated when you expend energy and get seemingly nowhere but the reason you make less progress than desired is that you forget to learn from failures. You must review failures for the positive information they contain then apply what you learn from those failures with zest.

Let’s say getting together with a particular person is stressful to you. Before you see that person view in your mind a successful meeting with that person. Then meet with that person and let whatever happens happen. After you leave re-view in the mind what went right and wrong. Re-play those same negative aspects as having a positive outcome. Before you see that person again pre view your desired outcome.

As you become better at this life will smooth out. What we see is that you all tend to be a bit lazy about pre-creating. Pre-creating is what being physical is all about. If we were in your shoes we would be proactive in creating our days and we encourage you to be, too.

Received February 28, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Energy

Posted on February 25, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     Someone once asked Higgins, “What prevents me from using this information to (in essence) practice magic?” Higgins’s response was, “Indeed. What does?”

They have this to say to you, “When you are clear on the answer to this question you are ready to manipulate energy any way you want.”

I’ve asked Higgins to clarify further.

Higgins:     Whether you are aware of it or not each of you has practiced ‘magic’ in your lifetime. Magic is simply the manipulation of the Laws of the Universe to achieve a desired goal.

When a child throws a tantrum to get what it wants it is practicing magic. When one adult rages to another to sway circumstances to the former’s liking, that one is practicing magic. When one of you sweetly manipulates a conversation to bring about a desired conclusion, again, that is magic. All these are instances of manipulating the flow of energy to bring about a desired result.

Although in the non-physical realm there is no qualification good or bad, black or white from the physical realm these examples would go under the heading black magic. In Harry Potter’s world this would be considered a form of the Dark Arts.

When a person visualizes themselves holding a trophy, winning a race or having simply holding a successful conversation with someone they find difficult, these are examples of ‘good’ or ‘light’ magic. Another form of ‘light’ magic is to ignore negativity and focus only on things that are positive. People who ‘look on the bright side’ of things are doing this.

Black and white or dark and light do not refer to color but rather to whether one is shining forth in Truth. The Truth of what humans are is light. Light when it slows becomes matter and that is what you are, slow-moving light. Thus when you behave or act out of accordance with your Truth this negativity is spoken of as coming from your ‘dark’ side.

The Universe is interconnected and though you may feel as though you are an individual you are not. You are one part of a whole. When you are clear that what you do to another you do to yourself you are ready to use our teachings in their fullness. We say this because you will never do anything to harm another when you are completely clear that what you do to another you do unto yourself.

Received February 25, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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The Kindness Paradigm (29)

Posted on February 23, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

Consider vacation—vacation feels great. One has virtually no cares other than to pursue happiness. Upon return home or return to work the denseness of life returns too. Wouldn’t it be more fun if every day felt like vacation? It can and does when one feels free to pursue the life of one’s dreams because vacation itself is not what makes vacation great. Vacation is wonderful because it brings a sense of freedom.

When we develop compassion for ourselves and for others we become a sort of safe place…a human safe harbor where we and those around us have not just the liberty to pursue our dreams but the emotional liberty to do so.

Cheryl Jensen, February 22, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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The Kindness Paradigm (28)

Posted on February 22, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

In the United States we are educated by a system. This ‘education’ begins when we are very young. We learn to be consumers. We learn to work long hours to ‘get ahead’. We learn lots of things but these things we learn about what we should do and what we should want…these things don’t necessarily please us or agree with us. We do them because we’ve been conditioned to believe that we want to and sometimes simply to prevent feeling guilty.

The Kindness Paradigm allows us to choose to listen to our own inner wisdom and to reinvent a social system that supports humanity by supporting individual expression.

Some might say that we already encourage individual expression and in ways we do. For some we do. The difference is that a Kindness Paradigm supports the individual expression of everyone, not just the few. Again, one could argue that everyone has opportunity to pursue their dreams. I disagree. Our early ‘education’ steers us into debt and because of all the things we are ‘educated’ to want many of us get locked in by the golden handcuffs of money. So while technically we could pursue anything, we don’t because we work at grinding jobs. Some people truly love their jobs but I’m betting that most don’t. Most don’t. That’s a lot of people spending a large part of any week doing, working, to support an economic machine rather than spending their time doing things that support their happiness.

I submit to you that by pursuing our individual happiness we will support a more financially viable economic system rather than a less viable system.

Cheryl Jensen, February 18, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Enjoy Life Whether You ‘Get It’ Or Not

Posted on February 21, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

I found this the other day. I don’t suppose I ever posted it so, albeit belated, an offering from Higgins.

Offering from Higgins:

It takes time for these things we talk about to sink in, to be incorporated into your being. Relax. Enjoy life whether you ‘get it’ or not. When these things we discuss with you begin to make sense and positive motion towards your desires begins to happen and you notice…well, the excitement you exude lights the universe.

Received November 14, 2011 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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The Kindness Paradigm (27)

Posted on February 20, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

Living in a Kindness Paradigm: What’s in it for me?

If you’ve been following the Law of Attraction material you already theoretically understand that like attracts like and each person literally vibrates relative to their likes and dislikes. The Universe responds by presenting each of us with life experience that is equal to the vibration we emit. Whether we are in synch with our likes or our dislikes, the Universe gives us plenty of it.

If we as individuals will get into synch with feeling satisfied and fulfilled by the end of each day not only will our days be enjoyable but the only natural conclusion to our lives is that we will one day realize that we are satisfied and fulfilled and done. At that point, we will naturally slip into our next extension of self and out of these temporary bodies without pain and without fuss. Long, dragged out illness and slow decline will not be attracted.

We are healthier and happier living in a Kindness Paradigm and this results in lots of nice ways including fewer health care costs. In the United States we spend vast amounts on health care. Imagine that being a thing of the past. Imagine all those health care workers being freed up to pursue the life of their dreams…

Imagine being free to pursue the life of your dreams…

Cheryl Jensen, February 18, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Higgins’ Manual on Physical Existence

Posted on February 19, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

Higgins wrote Higgins’ Manual on Physical Existence through me in 2011. Work’s been slow the last couple of months so during my extra time off I’ve been editing this piece and preparing it for publication.

It should be out mid-March and will be available through Amazon.

Thanks to those of you who ask after the live sessions, “Do you ever think of writing any of this down?” Apparently this blog isn’t what you mean by ‘writing it down’. 😉 Anyway, it is your questioning that has catalyzed me to action.

Cheryl

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The Kindness Paradigm (26)

Posted on February 18, 2014 by Cheryl Jensen

It is strange to me that seemingly every political candidate runs their race on a platform of ‘change’ yet as a people we don’t have a clear vision of what change looks like. So I am developing The Kindness Paradigm as a guideline for what that change needs to consist of for each of us as individuals and what life could be like if we did change.

Once we have a common vision for what we want our world to look like then the change we keep asking for will slip into place. Without a clear vision the ‘change’ will be elusive.

The common vision:

A world in which every person feels safe and secure and free to follow their heart’s desires; every person thrives both physically and mentally; all people have relationships that are satisfying and fulfilling; all mankind prospers; and every single person reaches the end of each day feeling satisfied and fulfilled. And, should a person reach the end of the day not feeling happily smug they have some form of supportive network to buoy their spirits and ready them for the next day.

The path to achievement:

Develop compassion. Compassion transcends all barriers. Since kindness is a result of compassion, this one action (development of compassion) will change the world.

The steps to compassion:

Mentally relax about life as it is right now. Accept willingly that which presents before us and allow it to exist, whatever it is. Understand that all any of us ever do is seek to feel good. With this understanding it is much easier to feel compassion for others. Hold compassion for ourselves and for others regardless of the situation. What naturally overflows is kindness.

The result:

Life in The Kindness Paradigm looks like each and every person committing words and actions from kindness, kindness being defined as arising from the understanding that what affects one affects another thus nurturing a desire to create harmony through positive word and action.

And:

In this gentler, supportive, kind environment each of us feels free to follow our heart’s desires. There is no thing more important than pursuing the heart’s desires. It is the heart’s desires that stimulate us to action and drives us to pursue our talents. The expression of the heart’s desires causes the heart to soar. Call that soaring heart happiness, fulfillment, satisfaction…put your own name to it. Whatever it is called, a soaring heart is a heart full of gladness and a world full of glad hearts is the goal of The Kindness Paradigm.

Furthermore, living out our heart’s desires in a supportive environment in which it is our common goal to assist one another in developing respective skills and abilities we will each thrive and prosper. When each of us thrives and prospers then we thrive and prosper as a world community.

So what I’m really saying is we can quit focusing on change and instead focus on developing compassion. From compassion we will uplift one another into our wholeness and the change that we seek will slip easily into place.

Cheryl Jensen, February 17, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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