Afraid to Make Death Transition (Part 1 of 2)

Posted on March 15, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     I have a friend in a nursing home and has had many strokes and a brain stem stroke and I believe she’s afraid of letting go is there anything I can do to help her?

Higgins:     The first thing you can do to help her is help yourself. As we read your energy you are empathizing with her so solidly that your own energy is leaking away. Personal energy flows (and this is a generalization but it works well for the purpose of helping you easily understand) from about two feet above your head, through your spinal column, and down into the ground about another two feet. Use one hand to describe a line from above your head straight down to the ground. Tell your energy to flow from head to toe.

Nextly, energy fills a person and emanates forth as an aura. This leakage you are experiencing has caused your personal aura to distort. Intend your energy to flow fully through you, that you might flow in harmony with your reasons for existence. This will fill out your aura and you will feel more settled. You can now be the energetic set point, a sort of energetic template for your friend, rather than you following her energetic lead. You may need to re-establish this well-rounded flow of energy many times per day to remain stable.

The stabilized energy  you now emit will reassure her on an unseen, unconscious level.

We need to know whether your friend is conscious. The second part of this response depends on whether she is conscious and if so, whether she is willing to discuss the death process with you.

Blessings to you and your friend. You are both, in this process, meeting a goal you decided upon together. This difficult situation is designed for both of you by both of you. Regardless of whether this process for her transition is smooth or bumpy, your Souls are experiencing their desired spiritual growth.

Received March 15, 2015

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How to Determine Opposites

Posted on March 6, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     Regarding your post of January 21, 2015, Mothers for Safe Driving, I assume the reason people work against drunk drivers is that drunk drivers often are to blame for vehicular deaths. I assume that these people think they ARE working against the opposite of the thing they don’t want. Can you clarify how to determine opposites?

Higgins:     Yes. Always work towards the desired goal. When something happens that you do not want to happen, view this as data. Use the data to determine what you do want, then work towards the goal of what you do want.

Using Mother’s Against Drunk Driving (MADD) as an example…

MADD was formed because a child was killed. A driver was drunk. It is an easily drawn conclusion to think the child would be alive were it not for the intoxicated driver. Therefore, eradicate intoxicated drivers to make your child safe.

This simply does not work. Events that occur between two people are always for both, events are both/and rather than either/or.

A child dies, any person dies, because they are not aligned with life. Period. There are myriad reasons for dis-aligning with life. There is no point in digging into the reasons why.  What is important is to discover what you do want from the data offered.

In this case, MADD has decided they want their children, all children, to be safe from drunk drivers. What they really mean is, they want their children to be safe. In this statement we now have a workable goal. The next step is to determine what ‘safe’ means.

Safe can mean alive. Safe can also mean mentally and physically healthy, well nourished both spiritually and physically, surrounded by supportive friends and family in an environment of prosperity and good-will with visions of their own vibrant future accenting their mental landscape. The first definition is what a person is before they’re dead. The second definition is what is desired.

The next step is to re-direct MADD to be Mothers for Children and Adults Who Are Mentally and Physically Healthy, Well Nourished Both Spiritually and Physically, Surrounded by Supportive Friends and Family in an Environment of Prosperity and Good-Will with Visions of Their Own Vibrant Future Accenting Their Mental Landscape.

With this goal in mind, one works towards safety from a different, more holistic angle. That is how opposites work. View what is not wanted as data. Determine from that data the feeling tone of the desirable outcome. Work towards that.

Received March 4, 2015

 

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Private Sessions with Higgins

Posted on March 5, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

A lovely window of opportunity has opened allowing me to offer Higgins publicly. I am now offering private sessions with Higgins via phone or Skype. Sessions last about an hour. Higgins especially enjoys conversation regarding the life experience. Higgins typically finishes a session with gentle energetic meditation templates to help clarify one’s energetic offering upon the session’s topic.

The price for phone/Skype sessions is $45 USD. Payment by check or PayPal.

Contact Cheryl Jensen at cherylorhiggins@hotmail.com to arrange a session. Available Tuesday through Saturday, some evenings. Located in the Pacific Time Zone (PST).

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Clarification Regarding Post: Mothers for Safe Driving

Posted on March 3, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Note from Cheryl:     This is from a comment someone made about the post on January 20, 2015 about Mothers for Safe Driving.

Question:    So, the “war” against drugs and “fighting” against cancer is not the way to go about those things, I take it.

Higgins:     Correct.  Resistance creates resistance, therefore, working against anything will only promote more of that thing that you work against. To eradicate the thing that you do not want you must promote the opposite of it.

Let’s use cancer for our example. Cancerous cells are abnormal cells that replicate and sometimes spread to other areas of the body. This often spreads in such a way as to harm the host. Cancer is frightening, sometimes painful and overtakes the host, eventually causing death if untreated.

The most effective method for long-term success is to change the host environment. This means the person hosting the cancer already feels fearful and life in some way is painful. A person succumbing to cancer has first succumbed to some greater life experience that has been emotionally painful. Changing the host environment means learning to hold compassion for oneself, it means developing a supple but firm notion of one’s self-worth, it means looking for the positive in every aspect of life, it means creating a life for oneself that one is exuberant about living.  The last aspect is the most important part because it defies Universal Law to die of cancer while one is exuberant about life. These are two completely incompatible emotions and one cannot exist in the company of the other.

In short, we will tell you that the most important thing you will ever do is to build a life you love and are enthusiastic about and promote the same for every person you come in contact with from now until the day you depart your body. This, better than anything, will prevent the use of drugs and the development of cancer because who needs drugs when they already feel great? and who needs cancer when they’ve already solved life’s mystery and are living in harmony with the One Source (which one does when one is happy to the core)?

Received March 3, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Mothers for Safe Driving and Safe Passengers

Posted on January 20, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     You have said many times that we should pay attention to those things we don’t like. Within that thing that we don’t like lies something important for us, specifically our happiness. At the same time you also say never work against anything because being against a thing creates resistance and that creates more of what we don’t want.

Let’s say, for example, that my child is killed in a car wreck. The person driving was drunk. Why wouldn’t I (again this is an example) join Mothers Against Drunk Driving. Why wouldn’t I want to work for stiffer sentencing for those who drive drunk, etc…?

Higgins:     Thank you friend, for asking this question.

You wouldn’t join Mothers Against Drunk Drivers because though that may seem to be the opposite of the problem it isn’t. The opposite of an unsafe child is a safe child so Mothers for Safe Driving is an opposite. Mothers for Safe Passengers is also an opposite. As long as mothers work diligently against drunk driving there will be work for them to do simply because what you give attention to persists. Should you decide that you absolutely must take action we know that happiness and success lie in Mothers for Safe Driving and Mothers for Safe Passengers.

Remember–never work against anything. Work for what you want to see occur.

Received January 5, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

 

 

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The Kindness Paradigm (48)

Posted on January 17, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     What would we expect to find in a Kindness Paradigm and why would we want to achieve such a thing?

Higgins:     Humans are hard wired in their DNA to seek happy, contented, feel good emotions. En masse humans will enjoy living in a paradigm of kindness because they can create their greatest imaginings in this kind of allowing paradigm. This kind of social paradigm is the framework for experiencing happiness. Happiness, we remind you, stems from following one’s heart which leads each and every one to create their greatest imaginings which makes one feel happy. A Kindness Paradigm simply is a framework that supports the happiest of human endeavors.

When one creates from the heart one sprouts metaphorical wings on their imagination. Creations of the heart are surprising and magical. As we said above, humans are hardwired to seek happiness, so these delightful creations will bring happiness to one and all. It is a psychological positive feedback loop. The more completely each human comes to understanding how good living kindly makes them feel the more fully they will want to live into it.

Things we expect you to notice in a Kindness Paradigm: Decreased violence, less crime, fewer illnesses, less severe illness, fewer accidents of all kinds, fewer injuries, increased prosperity, increased well-being, economic stability, enhanced safety, a healthy planet, positive interaction between humans and Mother Nature, beautiful re-development of existing communities…. This is a partial list.

Received January 8, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

 

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The Kindness Paradigm (47)

Posted on January 15, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     What is the difference between kindness and kind acts?

Higgins:     Kindness issues forth from the heart. A kind act is just that, a kind act. It may or may not be generated by kindness. A kind act is not always a good thing. A kind act motivated by kindness is always a good thing.

Question:     When would a kind act not be a good thing?

Higgins:     A predator luring a child by offering it a treat. A treat is imagined to be a kindness, a good thing. In this case the treat is bait. Giving a gift hoping to gain financially at a later date is another example. A kind act creates greatest expansion when it is generated in a kind heart.

Question:     Could a person who makes kind acts not in kindness learn to? Or make change such that they made truly kind acts?

Higgins:     Yes, by developing compassion.

Question:     How does compassion help?

Higgins:     True kindness overflows the compassionate heart.

Question:     Are there people who would not want to develop compassion and act from kindness?

Higgins:     Of course.

Question:     How would we get those people to want to?

Higgins:     We don’t. Remember that all things must be lovingly allowed. What you will do is wait. These people have two options:  They will either be caught up in the mass consciousness as it expands and be unable to resist the desire to change (as in the Hundredth Monkey Theory), or they won’t. They will eventually die, as you all will. If they die then they will be reborn into the expanded consciousness with less resistance to the new order.

Questioner:     Thank you. No more questions.

Received January 8, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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The Kindness Paradigm (46)

Posted on January 12, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     How, or perhaps where, do we begin living in a paradigm of kindness?

Higgins:     Mankind begins living in a paradigm of kindness when one person decides to make decisions based on kindness and subsequently take action that uplifts others as well as themselves.

When one person ‘catches’ the Kindness Bug it will spread like the flu only nicer.

Using this as the definition of how to start living in a paradigm of kindness, one person has decided to live this way. Many have. Thus, all you are awaiting is a Kindness Bug pandemic.

We would have you note that this is much easier and could happen much more quickly than most of you expect it can. Your Earth experience is filled with metaphor. Life is not only a mirror, reflecting your thoughts and beliefs, it is also a hologram reflecting the same thing over and over again. The world social system is already programmed for the rapid spread of information, social behaviors and disease. All that need happen is a tuning in to kind behavior instead. If the news programmers believe it will capture your attention and your imagination they will show it repeatedly and that is all it will take to spread the Kindness Bug like wildfire.

Received January 8, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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The Kindness Paradigm (45)

Posted on January 9, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     What needs to be put in place for us to live in a Kindness Paradigm?

Higgins:     Nothing. No thing needs to be established before mankind begins living in this re-enlivened way. In fact, it’s just the opposite. To begin living in kindness one must begin to be kind. One. Then two. Then three and so on. When a critical number is reached some obvious changes will show themselves.

We know that the educational system will undergo a tremendous overhaul one easy step at a time. The governmental defense systems will come to understand that social unrest has a cause that must be addressed because it cannot be subdued with arms. This will shift the posture of defense systems from domination to inclusion.

The source of food, water and energy will shift from large business to largely locally sourced. (Without precluding the delicious variety of food that stems from a global economy.) On site production will be common. Communities will develop a sense of community. Communities will likely be smaller, walking human scale, with travel between communities common and easy. They will be beautiful, built with integrity and with the comfort and needs of humans in mind while cozily co-existing with Mother Nature.

Part of the beauty of living kindly is the happiness of one another is foremost. This leads to encouraging one another to live out their dreams in a grand way. Discovery has never truly been limited but certainly it feels limited, especially by the dollar. In a Kindness Paradigm solutions are sought and problems are solved wholesomely. There are many ways to achieve a thing and together you find your individual and collective creativity unparalleled and unhampered.

We much appreciate that you, as a people, are reaching this evolutionary threshold. There is much love held for you.

Received January 8, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Clarification on Heart’s Desires

Posted on January 7, 2015 by Cheryl Jensen

Question:     In the post on December 16, 2014 I asked you how to pursue the heart’s desires. Paraphrasing what you said:  Do the thing you love to do with gusto. Do everything else with gusto, too, or at least as much gusto as you can muster.

What if the heart seems to have no desires? Or maybe I’m asking how to discover the Heart’s Desires which I assume you mean to by synonymous with our It thing.

Higgins:     Beautiful question.

The heart has desires. Much like a tender, budding fire the flames of which must be gently fed and blown upon until the fire roars under its own power, those desires, when they whisper, must be tenderly nurtured. The heart’s yearnings lead one on a road of discovery. It is the traveling along the road of discovery that leads one to an understanding of their It thing. Then, once one discovers their It thing, one’s focus narrows while their forms of expression expand.

The Heart’s Desires and the It thing are two different things. The Heart’s Desires lead one to express their It thing even if one never clarifies what their It thing is. One does not need to know their It thing in order to live a happy, fulfilled life but they must follow their Heart’s Desires to be happy (and safe, prosperous, fulfilled, healthy…).

It is worth reiterating that the heart has desires. No matter how timorous the heart’s attempts at notifying one of its desires may be, all hearts do flicker. Those hearts that are badly trodden and ignored do not speak very loudly but they do speak and as one learns to respond to those flickers the heart grows stronger and the little soul and soul carrier become correspondingly happier, healthier and more confident.

Received January 4, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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