The Kindness Paradigm (39)

As I continue to ponder the Kindness Paradigm I wonder sometimes how to stimulate in others the same desire that I have, that one about living in a kinder, gentler world. Not so much because others don’t want people to be kind to them but because it requires a shift on their part to being kinder and gentler.

A friend of mine neatly sums up the answer when she says, “It feels nice to be nice.”

I suspect people will pick it up all on their own when they feel the benefit of nice.

Cheryl Jensen at Lake Goodwin, Washington, June 25, 2014

 

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How to Stop the Fighting in the Middle East

Question:     I asked you, “How can we stop the fighting in the Middle East?” Your response was, “We suggest you do not try to stop the fighting. Instead, we suggest you focus your attention on solving the problems that cause the discontent that lead to the fighting.”

How can we do that? Do you have some suggestions?

Higgins:     Yes. Help every person whether young or old, male or female, of good health or poor, living in wealth or poverty and without regard to religious beliefs or lack thereof…help them achieve their desires.

Cheryl:     What if the desire of one is to annihilate the other?

Higgins:     Few humans are born with a true desire to kill. This is a learned action. We do clearly understand that there are those who have developed keen desire to conquer others at the expense of their own lives and the lives of others. Nevertheless, this is not a true desire. A true desire is a desire of the heart. To prosper and to feel powerful are true desires.

If it be your goal as species to assist one another in achieving these two ubiquitous desires most human discontent will be dispelled. Certainly, warring would abate.

Cheryl:     What sort of assistance needs to be offered to achieve this?

Higgins:     We suggest starting by helping others develop their sense of power. One would do that on an individual basis by saying only positive things about others and always looking at people as they would like to be seen rather than as they perhaps show themselves to be. Taking this a step further, always find something positive to say about plans another may share with you. Many wonderful ideas are smothered before they begin when the first tender shoots of an idea meet with negative responses.

From a social, broad scale perspective it is important to support the individual by developing schools that stimulate, develop and celebrate each child’s (or adult’s for that matter) unique interests; to develop laws that promote small business, especially the sole proprietorship; to promote kindness through television, movies and other wide distribution channels such as magazines and radio; and for the members of government to speak well of one another, to be the leaders in the respectful treatment of one another.

Cheryl:     I don’t understand how this leads to power and prosperity.

Higgins:     The human is born with a complete and full sense of identity. In essence, the baby is born with an inherent sense of its own capabilities (read: power). To feel other than confident is taught/learned by the negativity that surrounds the child/adolescent/adult. If words that a person hears are uplifting this sense of capability returns and with it the oomph needed to take action towards developing interests and following through on ideas. Taking action on interests and ideas is important because humans are regularly stimulated with ideas that will provide both happiness and prosperity.

Self-assured, happy, prosperous people do not wage war. To do so produces negative emotion and thus it defies Universal Law to do so and simultaneously experience genuine happiness.

Received June 24, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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How Can We Stop the Fighting in the Middle East and Ukraine?

Question:     How can we stop the fighting in the Middle East?

Higgins:     We suggest you do not try to stop the fighting. Instead, we suggest you focus your attention on solving the problems that cause the discontent that lead to the fighting.

Received June 23, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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The Kindness Paradigm (38)

Helping others be right

There is more than one way to do anything. The next time you feel like saying, “That’s not how I would do it,” stop and reconsider. Unless they are in imminent danger it is often best to allow each person the dignity to do what they are doing their way. Allow their way to be right.

This doesn’t automatically make your way wrong. It simply allows both to be correct. It is one way to extend courtesy towards, and to show respect for, another.

Cheryl Jensen, June 21, 2014, at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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The Kindness Paradigm (37)

Helping Others Be Right

To construct and maintain a social paradigm in which harmony reigns we must learn to help one another develop emotionally into steady, self-confident, kind individuals. One way to do that is to help others be right. Very often it seems we are intent on being right ourselves at the expense of courtesy and decency towards another.

When someone states their opinion we need to be able to understand their viewpoint without needing to agree with it. That way, we gain understanding and clarity while allowing each person to be right.

Cheryl Jensen, June 20, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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How Can I Talk With God/Allah/Creator? (2 of 2)

Higgins:     Let’s talk about prayer.

When a person ‘talks’ to God (Allah or Prime Source) God ‘hears’ your ‘words’ by interpreting the vibration of them. Imagine that your prayer thoughts spread out into the Universe much the way a pebble tossed into water creates rings that ripple across the surface of the water.

God/Allah ‘feels’ these ripples and interprets the meaning. Meaning is always ‘felt’ and interpreted as the emotion that ‘carried’ the thoughts/words out into the Universe.

If you will pray in desperation, Prime Source ‘reads’ desperation and responds. The wheels of the Universe turn and you are presented with more to be desperate about. You wonder why God doesn’t respond to you. What is misunderstood is that God always responds.

Universal response is much like a vending machine. You put in your order and the Universe responds every time. The miscommunication comes from human expectation. Mankind ‘says’,  “I am uncomfortable in some way. Please make this situation that is uncomfortable go away.” God/the Universe responds by sending more for you to feel uncomfortable about. And you lose faith in your Creator.

What we would like you to consider is that God/Allah’s Universal Vending Machine responds to the vibration your prayer carries rather than the words. If mankind will pray, “I deeply appreciate those times in my life where harmony prevailed,” and match that with the appropriate appreciative feeling the Universal Vending Machine will begin to shift. Harmony will begin to happen.

The Universal Vending Machine may be a little stiff at first but the more appreciative lubrication you give it the easier and swifter wonderful things will be delivered to you.

Received June 20, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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To Thrive Is Your Birthright

Higgins:     It is your birthright to thrive, to flourish, to prosper. When you do not flourish, when you are not content with life the Broader, eternal being that guides you through this life stimulates you to take action. This stimulus feels like boredom or discontent, frustration or anxiety, anger, depression and even fear.

The current unrest that rocks Earth’s people is related to life dissatisfaction and a subsequent desire to feel powerful.

Dissatisfaction with life is simply information. What each of you as individuals do with this information is the deciding factor in outcome. While some of you use a feeling of dissatisfaction as an opportunity to consider new ideas that stimulate growth and positive change, some of you act as though you are victims who have no control over their situation. When you feel you have no control the Broader, eternal being that guides you through life stimulates you to anger. Anger is a powerful emotion designed to stimulate you to action. If action is not taken anger eventually degrades into powerless emotions such as depression and fear.

We applaud action that shifts a person’s emotion from powerless to powerful. However, action taken by one at the expense of the happiness and well-being of another is never in harmony with one’s Eternal truth and will eventually lead to more negativity.

We encourage instead an awakening to the power that resides within. That eternal connection that each of you has to God/Allah/Creator itself supplies each with internal wisdom to create prosperity and happiness. We encourage each of you to release your sense of being victimized and tap into the wisdom and power of the Universal Supreme Source and create from this place of wholeness instead.

Received June 16, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

 

 

 

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How Can I Talk With God/Allah/Creator? (1 of 2)

Question:     How can I talk with God/Allah/Creator?

Higgins:     That thing called God, Allah and Creator is the primary source of all life. Each one of you is connected by a metaphorical umbilical cord to Source. You cannot help but communicate with Source and whether you are aware of it or not, you do communicate continually and Source always responds.

Good communication is a two-way street and what you are really asking is, “How do I understand the responses I receive?” In other words, you are (in a sense) re-gaining consciousness and now wish to participate more fully in the relationship you have with Source.

While words are the primary focus of communication between physicals, emotion is what Source ‘listens’ to. Whatever you think about, talk about and act upon with emotion Source responds to. The greater your emotion regarding the topic the swifter and bolder the response from Source.

While humans understand and use the word ‘no’, Source does not respond to ‘no’ the way humans expect. Source responds to emotion. Whatever emotion you send out Source responds to in kind. That means each time you say ‘no’, Source says ‘yes’ to the very thing you say ‘no’ to.

For example, you want to not struggle with money. Sources hears you say, “I struggle with money.” Then Source sends you more financial difficulties to struggle with.

We encourage you to learn to look for the positive in every situation. Source will respond to your emotional directive. You will always know how well or poorly you are doing by the daily life events that come your way. If they bring a sense of contentment and joy then you’ve been sending out the ‘right words’ to Source and you have learned to communicate clearly.

Received June 12, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

 

 

 

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School Shootings

Question:    Higgins, what is with all the school, store and mall shootings?

Higgins:     Human life, the day to day events, is created by what you focus upon with feeling. Humans create television, movies and games that depict disrespectful, angry and violent treatment of one another. The news channels report shootings and violence morning and night. We have a question for you. Why do expect anything else?

It defies Universal Law to expect that life will provide peaceful, happy events when violence and traumatic death is relentlessly focused upon.

Furthermore, more people are generally feeling alienated and disillusioned with their place in the game of life. Because the news reports these violent events, those who may not have acted before, now have visual and mental templates placed in their minds. The possibility of carrying out ideas for harming others, for seeking some kind of revenge on a world that isn’t welcoming, comes closer to reality.

To stop the school shootings you, as a people, are going to have to mature emotionally. You will have to stop watching murder and the mistreatment of others depicted on television. You will have to stop waging war on other countries. You will have to learn to speak kindly, to act kindly. For example, presidential candidates will have to speak well of one another during the race for election. Think about it. You will have to change your behavior.

You will also have to learn to be inclusive so that those who now feel marginalized instead feel themselves to be, and in fact are, contributing members of society.

There is no law that can be enacted that will stop what is happening.  Only changing your behavior will lead to sustainable safe neighborhoods.

Received June 10, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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You Are Not Alone

Offering from Higgins:

You are not alone here, in this physical realm. In a way, you are a like a radio controlled car being steered remotely. Unlike the RC car you do not have to follow directions. You have free choice whether or not to follow the directions offered.

Guidance comes from an inner, broader you and from Spirit Guides. The inner, broader you remembers every life experience you’ve ever had and what you learned from them. Most importantly your inner, broader you knows what you wanted to achieve this lifetime. From the inner, broader you’s expanded vantage point you are steered by emotion towards action that will lead inevitably towards achievement of your life plan.

Spirit Guides help by stimulating your imagination and impulses.

Each and every one of you has the inherent ability and capacity to create a life on Earth that is rewarding and fulfilling. All that is needed is for you to relax the mind and body and allow yourself to be inspired. Then act upon the inspiration.

Received June 10, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

 

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