Why Did He Leave Me Now? Part One

(Note: this question came in two parts so I’ve included information from two emails.)

Question:     My husband passed away on October 2, 2012 one day after his 70th. birthday and two days  before our 32nd. wedding anniversary. My question is: why did he leave me so soon especially when he was to take care of me after my up coming open heart surgery. And why did he leave me with so much responsibility.

I miss him terribly and question why he had to leave me now.

(Second part):     I’m not sure if my original email was sent to you or not, but your sister-in-law has given me your address to ask a question that you might be able to channel my husband.

He and I were married for 32 years and he was my third husband and the love of my life. He always said he would die young as his father died at 73 and his grandfather also in his early seventies. I want to know why he left me when I am to have open heart surgery and he was to be my caregiver and his leaving has caused so much sorrow for his son as well as myself.

Higgins:     For read-ability we will answer this question in several parts.

Physical man comes forward into the Earth realm from the non-physical realm. The essence that is mankind is eternal. That part of man is sometimes called the soul. The soul inhabits a body for a while. Death comes when the soul departs the body. Souls reincarnate a varying number of times. Some souls come into the Earth realm thousands of times and some just a few.

Many of you believe that when a person dies that is the end of them. Not so. It is simply the end of that body/soul duo. That particular body/soul duo will never occur again however that soul may certainly return to physical again and again.

After death the soul, which is an extension of a Broader Being, returns to itself. The soul reconnects with its Eternal Self. Often, there is a rest period, a kind of slumber, during which the soul recovers from its Earth Adventure. This is much like taking a few days to rest after vacationing. After the soul recovers from its Earth Adventure it resumes participation in the non-physical life realm. This realm is much like life on Earth in some ways but there is far more variety and sweeter, more genuine interactions.

The soul may begin planning its next Earth Adventure or choose to stay non-physical. The non-physical realm has great scope and there is much to be explored here also.

Consider this much and we will resume this conversation as a separate blog entry.

Received November 22, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Can Stuff Just Happen?

Question:     I don’t think I consciously had a fear of having cancer or ever thought I would have cancer, yet last year I had cancer.  I know emotions can cause physical problems, and maybe in my case it did.  But, is this the case all the time with everything that occurs in our lives . . . we somehow manifest it even if we are not aware of it.  And, if that is true, it seems somehow unfair or like a trick.  How can we know every thought and subconscious thought we are having so that we manifest what we desire and not what we don’t desire?  Sometimes, doesn’t “stuff” just happen??  With love, your often very dense friend, (name removed)

Higgins:     The Earth realm is impressive in the sheer variety it offers in response to vibrational output. So while you may never have seriously considered that you yourself could or would ever develop cancer your consideration of it really has little to do with whether or not you develop it. Vibrational equivalents are the important thing in manifestation.

The Universe is attractive, meaning that physical life experience returns to you a mirror image of the vibrational offering you make. You never had to think about cancer to get cancer if your regular vibrational output has been equal to some form of cancer. There may be many physical manifestations that are equal to that which you’ve put out. The Universe expends no effort on what it sends, it always sends the easiest, most efficient offering.

You ask, “Doesn’t “stuff” just happen?” What you are really asking is whether anything can ever manifest that you yourself did not ‘request’ vibrationally. The answer is yes. Sometimes. To grasp how often this occurs, consider the 24 hour day as 100%. Roughly ninety-nine percent of the day you draw unto yourself and perhaps 1% is artifact. The neighbor’s mail getting delivered to your house, that’s artifact. Cancer is not artifact.

The Earth realm is not a test. It is not a punishment or place to redeem yourself. The Earth realm is designed for mankind. It is designed specifically to provide for your every desire and to do so abundantly. The Universe, however, does not read anything but vibration so achieving your desires vs. achieving your vibrational equivalent is up to you. There is nothing fairer. The Universe is impartial and the law absolute.

To know whether or not you are on the right track look around you. There is no need to monitor every thought. Simply look around. Is your household organized or in disarray? Is your car clean or dirty? Do you have enough money? What about relationships, are yours good? Or do you nurture any relationships at all? What is your neighborhood like? Are your clothes clean and well maintained or do they need mending or replacing? Do you have too much stuff or not enough of the things you need? What is happening to your health and the health of your pets?

If you like what you see then your vibrational output is OK. If not, choose your thoughts and words more carefully. Everything that occurs in your life reflects you back to yourself. You reap what you sow. It is not possible to plant corn and harvest cucumber. It defies law.

We include the way you signed your note to us, “With love, your often very dense friend,” because this is something you need to look at as a reflection of you. If you will persist in making statements about yourself claiming to be dense, indeed, spiritual advancement will be slow and laborious.

You are not at all dense. You are brilliant. But remember, just because you don’t want a thing doesn’t mean you are in alignment with not having it.

A very large ship or a locomotive, they are the same in that due to the momentum they carry stopping them in order to then reverse and go the other way takes time. So it is with you. Since there is nothing you can do to speed up the turn around process you may as well relax and enjoy where you are right now. It is the only thing you can do. It is the only thing you ‘should’ do. It is the thing we recommend for you.

There is no need to defend where you are in life. You are guided (by impulse and inclination) towards expression of a plan you laid out before birth. All you need to do is relax and everything will come around right.

When you can respond gently to all that comes at you, no matter how evil and ugly it may seem, you will be well on your way towards a happy, satisfying life.

We need to add that it is not enough to respond gently, you must also feel gentle as you respond. The Universe will then respond gently to you.

Received November 11, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Just a Note

I’m taking a short vacation so will not be posting for about a week.

Blessings everyone.

Cheryl

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Husband Died Leaving Her Alone

Question:     Hello Higgins, On this spiritual path, I have learned from many teachers that our thoughts become our reality.  We manifest our lives.  Well (my friend’s) first husband was the love of her life and they had a great relationship and then he died early and she was devastated.  She had no thought of him dying.  She is confused by what kind of lesson she was supposed to learn from this experience.  She loved her life with him.  So???  This is confusing.  She never desired to manifest him dying and leaving her alone.

Higgins:     Friend, this is an important question.

Your friend is confusing her life with his life. Her life is her life and his life is his life. She does not create his life and never did.

Remember that each of you creates your own life and none other. Therefore, what she is wishing is that she had somehow created his life differently and that is impossible. It defies Universal Law.

Her job now is to remember what she loved about being married to him. What were his fine qualities? What did she like about their interactions? What did she like about marriage itself? Consider how nice it is to be completely comfortable with another human being. Consider all the positive qualities of the relationship.

Remembering all the good things of the marriage will surely bring the tears. This is good for it is good to grieve. Allowing emotions to flow will help get them out. Stuck energy blocks the very happiness she seeks.

While she considers all the good things about her marriage she is doing two things: she is helping herself to grieve fully and she is shaping her new life. This is important constructive time. When the storm of emotion passes and she is ready to consider building anew, the groundwork will be set for a new life with all the wonderful qualities of the old.

Remind her that grieving fully is paramount in placing a solid foundation for this next segment of her life.

We will add that you physicals come forth from the eternal holding a much broader view of life than you can see or grasp from the physical perspective. Often two or more beings agree before birth on some scenario that will provide growth for each of them and the two of them could have had a pre-agreement for him to depart early. However, it is more likely that the two of them developed an agreement in dream time through the years of their marriage. The development of agreements goes something like this:

Let’s say she has an easy time keeping centered in herself (and therefore happy) as long as her husband is around. In fact, she is dependant on his energy for her own stability and happiness. They could have developed a dream-time plan that he would depart early leaving her to learn to stabilize on her own.

This sort of mutual creation of life while life is in play is actually quite common. Think of it as actors in a play who improvise in the middle of a scene.

Friends, all is well. All is truly well. Grieve. Grieve fully. When the storm passes growth will resume.

Received October 31, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Do Crystals Affect the Human Energy Body?

Note:     This is part two of a two-part question/response. They talked about crystals and energy first (published October 28, 2012).

Question:     I have a question for Higgins, when you get a chance.

During the first part of the session they were reading my energy and asking me what was causing my energy to go off to one side and also that it was being cut off at the knees.

Well later that evening I was at a blessing session that I go to every Wednesday and I met a woman who was telling me that she has been studying crystals. I happened to have a crystal in my left pocket (the direction Higgins gestured toward as the energy leak) that I’d had in there during Higgins’ session. I’ve just by habit sometimes just kept it in my pocket for, I guess thinking it was good luck or helping my energy stabilize.

So I had her look at the crystal, as I really don’t know anything about them.  She said that the crystal needed to be cleansed as it was holding negative energy.  (I naively didn’t realize they would do that, always thought they were just good energy carriers!)

So I am wondering if that is what Higgins was picking up on, because actually I did feel when I was carrying the crystal that I had kind of a knot of energy in my heart Chakra which this woman also mentioned. Even during the Higgins session, I thought it was my posture or something.

It would be helpful to know how something like this would affect their reading of my energy.

It would seem I should use more discernment and gather knowledge before just picking things up thinking they’re just good!

It seems like this would be helpful information in general if it is the case that something like this could throw off energy.

Higgins:     As regards whether this crystal had effect upon your energy at the time of our session with you:

Each person is energy that the mind interprets as human being. When we ‘read’  a person’s energy body we are really following the flow of the energy that you are. Energy should, generally speaking, flow from head to toe. Sometimes energy flows off the human body prior to reaching the ground due to a strong emotional connection, like that of parent/child. As long as the relationship is in harmony the net energy flow will be neutral because as much energy is flowing out as is flowing in.

Many times, though, when energy flows off of the human energy body before reaching the ground it is due to some negative influence in that person’s life.

Another aspect of ‘reading’ the human energy body is whether the aura is complete or not. A complete aura is egg-shaped. It starts above the human head and flows smoothly in an arc towards the ground ending below the feet. Significant aberrations indicate an energy block and are a reflection of discomfort of some kind within that person’s life.

While we might read a crystal as a ‘bump’ on your aura we would not read it as the significant block that you were experiencing that afternoon. Nor would a crystal carried on your person cause an energy leakage like that which flowed off of you that day.

Instead, in the unconscious way that the universe works you were impulsed to carry that crystal with you in the area as close to the ‘problem’ area that you could get it: in your pocket.

Whether the crystal came to you energetically dirty or whether it was dirtied by its collecting of your own negativity we would say to that, “Both.” The crystal, as all things must, had to be in energetic alignment with you in order for it to come into your path in the first place.

All things upon planet Earth are here for human interest and enjoyment. If carrying a crystal with you brings you pleasure then by all means, carry one. Crystals love to participate with you. But a crystal is not needed to center you and keep you grounded. That is something each of you does naturally and can be accomplished swiftly simply by reminding your energy to flow in harmony with your pursuit of happiness.

Received October 30, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Crystals and Energy

Note:     From time to time I give private sessions. This question arises secondary to an individual session. They talk about crystals and energy first.

Question:     I have a question for Higgins, when you get a chance.

During the first part of the session they were reading my energy and asking me what was causing my energy to go off to one side and also that it was being cut off at the knees.

Well later that evening I was at a blessing session that I go to every Wednesday and I met a woman who was telling me that she has been studying crystals. I happened to have a crystal in my left pocket (the direction Higgins gestured toward as the energy leak) that I’d had in there during Higgins’ session. I’ve just by habit sometimes just kept it in my pocket for, I guess thinking it was good luck or helping my energy stabilize.

So I had her look at the crystal, as I really don’t know anything about them.  She said that the crystal needed to be cleansed as it was holding negative energy.  (I naively didn’t realize they would do that, always thought they were just good energy carriers!)

So I am wondering if that is what Higgins was picking up on, because actually I did feel when I was carrying the crystal that I had kind of a knot of energy in my heart Chakra which this woman also mentioned. Even during the Higgins session, I thought it was my posture or something.

It would be helpful to know how something like this would affect their reading of my energy.

It would seem I should use more discernment and gather knowledge before just picking things up thinking they’re just good!

It seems like this would be helpful information in general if it is the case that something like this could throw off energy.

Higgins:     The answer to this is actually a bit complex so we’ll answer this in pieces.

If you, or any being of any kind, will hold your energy in stable alignment with your personal Truth there is no thing (no good thing, no bad thing, no person, no crystal, no destruction, no disease) that could affect your life in any way. When you are in stable alignment with your own Eternal Truth you alone create your life experience.

Most of you, however, are not completely stable in your personal Truth and your life creation is frequently swayed by the positive or negative thoughts others have about you along with the overall mass (un)conscious that has been collected or created over millenia by the beliefs, thoughts, hopes and desires of those who came before you.

Further, the human make-up is crystalline. That is why so many people believe that crystals can help you align with good things. In fact, they can. The human body will follow, or tune in to, the crystal’s energy whether negative or positive, assuming it is the intention to do so or you are not clear enough in your Truth to stay in your own center.

However, because all things carry vibration a person will tune in to any energy they are near if not centered within one’s own Truth, if the energy is within range. To understand what we mean by within range consider a radio. When you tune in a radio frequency only those within range are clear and that is the same with vibrational frequencies. Only those that are within range are accessible to you.

Think how nice it is to have a coat or piece of clothing from a person you are attracted to. The reason this feels so good is the energy of the person to whom the article belongs is imprinted in the article of clothing and then imparted to the holder. This is how a crystal works, too. It imparts its energy to the holder.

Remember that whether energy imparted to and carried by an article of clothing is negative or positive it can be transmitted to a receiver that is tuned to that frequency. This is the same for any energy and that is why we encourage each of you to tune into your own Eternal Truth. This will always produce energy is always right for you.

We will respond further later.

Received October 27 and 28, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Body is Failing*

Offering from Higgins:

Let’s say you are old.  You are old, hundreds of thousands of years old, but let’s say we’re talking about chronological human years.  Let’s also say that your body is failing, perhaps significantly.  What is one to do?

If you feel complete there is nothing to do.  Enjoy the time you have left in this physical existence.

If you do not feel complete.  If somehow your current life experience and physical condition seem wrong for you then read on.

*You are eternal beings, growth seeking beings.  You are not designed for stagnancy. Continual growth is a requirement for a satisfactory life experience.

*Know also that the body is designed to work smoothly and without fail until the day that you depart this physical existence.

*It is never too late.

With those three points in mind, regardless of chronological age or physical disrepair, you can shift your life towards complete fulfillment and satisfaction by deciding to do so. Once a firm decision has been made to choose a life of fulfillment and satisfaction you will begin to have impulses.  Follow those impulses.  Given enough time and commitment they will lead you to a life of pleasure.

This path to excellent health and complete pleasure can be fairly lengthy time wise. Remember to enjoy the journey by noticing all the ways in which your life is gently improving. And should you suddenly become aware that you’ve taken a step in the wrong direction simply change your mind and take a new direction.  There are no mistakes and there is great joy in the pursuit of happiness.

Received March 26, 2011

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Clarification of ‘October Energies and Vibrations’

Question:     In your recent post, October Energies and Vibrations, you said, “Seasons differ globally because Earth’s vibrational rhythm pulses around the globe like a heart beat.”

I thought seasons differ due to the length of daylight and Earth’s distance from the sun.

Higgins:     What you experience visibly is that as the Earth turns one part of the Earth moves farther from the sun while the other gets closer producing weather patterns called seasons.

What’s really happening is that the Earth has a metaphorical heart that stimulates the Earth’s pulsation in much the same way the human heart’s beat stimulates the human pulse. If the Earth’s ‘heart’ was not stimulated to ‘beat’ by an ‘electrical impulse’ the Earth would not rotate, the tides would not change, the sun would not rise and set. The Earth would be dead just as when a human heart is no longer stimulated to beat the human is considered dead.

We wish for you to understand the only thing that exists is metaphor upon metaphor. You are just like the Earth and she is just like you. You are the same.

Received October 25, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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October Energies and Vibrations

Question:     Are different energies offered season to season or month to month? For example, what are the energies and vibrations we feel in October?

Higgins:     There is a rhythm to life, an ebb and flow. This rhythm is eternal, perpetual and never loses momentum. A swinging pendulum if left alone will eventually stop in a straight downward position centered between its two extreme left to right swings. Though the rhythm of life gains momentum in the spring and loses momentum in the fall it never ceases and repeats itself into eternity.

Outward manifestations of Life’s rhythm appear as tidal change, birth, death, changing seasons and myriad other cycles both overt and covert.

Just as men and women slow in the later years the Earth slows as Autumn sets in. Since all Life is vibration manifest we can also say that Earth’s vibration is slower in Autumn. What you feel on those dog days of summer is the Earth’s waning or slowing vibration.

Seasons differ globally because Earth’s vibrational rhythm pulses around the globe like a heart beat.

When a person plays (children do this especially well) they exude rapid energy waves. They are impulsive and instinctual more than thoughtful and receptive. When play ceases, exuberance spent, a person tends to be quieter and more contemplative. This is often capitalized on by studying or engaging in conversation but many choose television, computers, electronic gaming or even sleep instead.

What is felt in October, especially near the end of the month, is that slowing and subsequent quieting of Life’s rhythm. This quieting is by design so that in the shade of summer’s exuberance mankind may sink inwards, re-establishing a strong link with the eternal so that they too may eternally arise in the spring.

Received October 23, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Bringing Dreams to Fruition

Question:     Once I have a dream in mind how do I bring it to fruition?

Higgins:     All desires are manifested the same way. Step One: think It up. Step Two: decide It is desirable to achieve. Step three: relax about It.

Many of  you get tied up right after deciding It is desirable. At this point you start fussing, working hard and generally spinning your wheels. If relaxation is the very next step the brain, which is a receiver, will be better able to receive important information from your Eternal Self and Spirit Guides.

This information is designed to assist you in achieving your goals. It will come as inspired thought and impulse.

Step four: follow-up on those ideas and impulses. This is the action phase. Typically, very little needs to be done at any given time. Each step will be small and easy although there may be many, many small steps that will unfold before you complete the creation of It.

Step five: enjoy the process. Enjoy the tasks required to complete each small step and bask in the satisfaction completing the step will bring. Enjoyment of the task at hand will bring your emotions into alignment with your dream one small step at a time.

Step six: (not a required step but a helpful one) notice all the little ways your dream is showing itself to you along the way. Get good at interpreting metaphor. For example, your dream is to write a book and have it published. Years are going by and your writing is progressing slowly when out of the blue an acquaintance whom you’ve not heard from for several years emails to say her book has been published and is due out soon.

This is the metaphor we’re talking about. Learn to read every life occurrence as a reflection of your own life. Whether you are headed towards negativity or positivity it will be reflected back at you on a daily basis.

Keep repeating Steps four and  five until your dream comes to fruition. The more small steps you take the easier it will be to know what next steps to take and so the momentum builds until one day your project births.

Received October 21, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington, USA

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