Clarification Regarding Post: Mothers for Safe Driving

Note from Cheryl:     This is from a comment someone made about the post on January 20, 2015 about Mothers for Safe Driving.

Question:    So, the “war” against drugs and “fighting” against cancer is not the way to go about those things, I take it.

Higgins:     Correct.  Resistance creates resistance, therefore, working against anything will only promote more of that thing that you work against. To eradicate the thing that you do not want you must promote the opposite of it.

Let’s use cancer for our example. Cancerous cells are abnormal cells that replicate and sometimes spread to other areas of the body. This often spreads in such a way as to harm the host. Cancer is frightening, sometimes painful and overtakes the host, eventually causing death if untreated.

The most effective method for long-term success is to change the host environment. This means the person hosting the cancer already feels fearful and life in some way is painful. A person succumbing to cancer has first succumbed to some greater life experience that has been emotionally painful. Changing the host environment means learning to hold compassion for oneself, it means developing a supple but firm notion of one’s self-worth, it means looking for the positive in every aspect of life, it means creating a life for oneself that one is exuberant about living.  The last aspect is the most important part because it defies Universal Law to die of cancer while one is exuberant about life. These are two completely incompatible emotions and one cannot exist in the company of the other.

In short, we will tell you that the most important thing you will ever do is to build a life you love and are enthusiastic about and promote the same for every person you come in contact with from now until the day you depart your body. This, better than anything, will prevent the use of drugs and the development of cancer because who needs drugs when they already feel great? and who needs cancer when they’ve already solved life’s mystery and are living in harmony with the One Source (which one does when one is happy to the core)?

Received March 3, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Mothers for Safe Driving and Safe Passengers

Question:     You have said many times that we should pay attention to those things we don’t like. Within that thing that we don’t like lies something important for us, specifically our happiness. At the same time you also say never work against anything because being against a thing creates resistance and that creates more of what we don’t want.

Let’s say, for example, that my child is killed in a car wreck. The person driving was drunk. Why wouldn’t I (again this is an example) join Mothers Against Drunk Driving. Why wouldn’t I want to work for stiffer sentencing for those who drive drunk, etc…?

Higgins:     Thank you friend, for asking this question.

You wouldn’t join Mothers Against Drunk Drivers because though that may seem to be the opposite of the problem it isn’t. The opposite of an unsafe child is a safe child so Mothers for Safe Driving is an opposite. Mothers for Safe Passengers is also an opposite. As long as mothers work diligently against drunk driving there will be work for them to do simply because what you give attention to persists. Should you decide that you absolutely must take action we know that happiness and success lie in Mothers for Safe Driving and Mothers for Safe Passengers.

Remember–never work against anything. Work for what you want to see occur.

Received January 5, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

 

 

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The Kindness Paradigm (48)

Question:     What would we expect to find in a Kindness Paradigm and why would we want to achieve such a thing?

Higgins:     Humans are hard wired in their DNA to seek happy, contented, feel good emotions. En masse humans will enjoy living in a paradigm of kindness because they can create their greatest imaginings in this kind of allowing paradigm. This kind of social paradigm is the framework for experiencing happiness. Happiness, we remind you, stems from following one’s heart which leads each and every one to create their greatest imaginings which makes one feel happy. A Kindness Paradigm simply is a framework that supports the happiest of human endeavors.

When one creates from the heart one sprouts metaphorical wings on their imagination. Creations of the heart are surprising and magical. As we said above, humans are hardwired to seek happiness, so these delightful creations will bring happiness to one and all. It is a psychological positive feedback loop. The more completely each human comes to understanding how good living kindly makes them feel the more fully they will want to live into it.

Things we expect you to notice in a Kindness Paradigm: Decreased violence, less crime, fewer illnesses, less severe illness, fewer accidents of all kinds, fewer injuries, increased prosperity, increased well-being, economic stability, enhanced safety, a healthy planet, positive interaction between humans and Mother Nature, beautiful re-development of existing communities…. This is a partial list.

Received January 8, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

 

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The Kindness Paradigm (47)

Question:     What is the difference between kindness and kind acts?

Higgins:     Kindness issues forth from the heart. A kind act is just that, a kind act. It may or may not be generated by kindness. A kind act is not always a good thing. A kind act motivated by kindness is always a good thing.

Question:     When would a kind act not be a good thing?

Higgins:     A predator luring a child by offering it a treat. A treat is imagined to be a kindness, a good thing. In this case the treat is bait. Giving a gift hoping to gain financially at a later date is another example. A kind act creates greatest expansion when it is generated in a kind heart.

Question:     Could a person who makes kind acts not in kindness learn to? Or make change such that they made truly kind acts?

Higgins:     Yes, by developing compassion.

Question:     How does compassion help?

Higgins:     True kindness overflows the compassionate heart.

Question:     Are there people who would not want to develop compassion and act from kindness?

Higgins:     Of course.

Question:     How would we get those people to want to?

Higgins:     We don’t. Remember that all things must be lovingly allowed. What you will do is wait. These people have two options:  They will either be caught up in the mass consciousness as it expands and be unable to resist the desire to change (as in the Hundredth Monkey Theory), or they won’t. They will eventually die, as you all will. If they die then they will be reborn into the expanded consciousness with less resistance to the new order.

Questioner:     Thank you. No more questions.

Received January 8, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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The Kindness Paradigm (46)

Question:     How, or perhaps where, do we begin living in a paradigm of kindness?

Higgins:     Mankind begins living in a paradigm of kindness when one person decides to make decisions based on kindness and subsequently take action that uplifts others as well as themselves.

When one person ‘catches’ the Kindness Bug it will spread like the flu only nicer.

Using this as the definition of how to start living in a paradigm of kindness, one person has decided to live this way. Many have. Thus, all you are awaiting is a Kindness Bug pandemic.

We would have you note that this is much easier and could happen much more quickly than most of you expect it can. Your Earth experience is filled with metaphor. Life is not only a mirror, reflecting your thoughts and beliefs, it is also a hologram reflecting the same thing over and over again. The world social system is already programmed for the rapid spread of information, social behaviors and disease. All that need happen is a tuning in to kind behavior instead. If the news programmers believe it will capture your attention and your imagination they will show it repeatedly and that is all it will take to spread the Kindness Bug like wildfire.

Received January 8, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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The Kindness Paradigm (45)

Question:     What needs to be put in place for us to live in a Kindness Paradigm?

Higgins:     Nothing. No thing needs to be established before mankind begins living in this re-enlivened way. In fact, it’s just the opposite. To begin living in kindness one must begin to be kind. One. Then two. Then three and so on. When a critical number is reached some obvious changes will show themselves.

We know that the educational system will undergo a tremendous overhaul one easy step at a time. The governmental defense systems will come to understand that social unrest has a cause that must be addressed because it cannot be subdued with arms. This will shift the posture of defense systems from domination to inclusion.

The source of food, water and energy will shift from large business to largely locally sourced. (Without precluding the delicious variety of food that stems from a global economy.) On site production will be common. Communities will develop a sense of community. Communities will likely be smaller, walking human scale, with travel between communities common and easy. They will be beautiful, built with integrity and with the comfort and needs of humans in mind while cozily co-existing with Mother Nature.

Part of the beauty of living kindly is the happiness of one another is foremost. This leads to encouraging one another to live out their dreams in a grand way. Discovery has never truly been limited but certainly it feels limited, especially by the dollar. In a Kindness Paradigm solutions are sought and problems are solved wholesomely. There are many ways to achieve a thing and together you find your individual and collective creativity unparalleled and unhampered.

We much appreciate that you, as a people, are reaching this evolutionary threshold. There is much love held for you.

Received January 8, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Clarification on Heart’s Desires

Question:     In the post on December 16, 2014 I asked you how to pursue the heart’s desires. Paraphrasing what you said:  Do the thing you love to do with gusto. Do everything else with gusto, too, or at least as much gusto as you can muster.

What if the heart seems to have no desires? Or maybe I’m asking how to discover the Heart’s Desires which I assume you mean to by synonymous with our It thing.

Higgins:     Beautiful question.

The heart has desires. Much like a tender, budding fire the flames of which must be gently fed and blown upon until the fire roars under its own power, those desires, when they whisper, must be tenderly nurtured. The heart’s yearnings lead one on a road of discovery. It is the traveling along the road of discovery that leads one to an understanding of their It thing. Then, once one discovers their It thing, one’s focus narrows while their forms of expression expand.

The Heart’s Desires and the It thing are two different things. The Heart’s Desires lead one to express their It thing even if one never clarifies what their It thing is. One does not need to know their It thing in order to live a happy, fulfilled life but they must follow their Heart’s Desires to be happy (and safe, prosperous, fulfilled, healthy…).

It is worth reiterating that the heart has desires. No matter how timorous the heart’s attempts at notifying one of its desires may be, all hearts do flicker. Those hearts that are badly trodden and ignored do not speak very loudly but they do speak and as one learns to respond to those flickers the heart grows stronger and the little soul and soul carrier become correspondingly happier, healthier and more confident.

Received January 4, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Utopia or Natural Order of Things?

Question:    You mentioned in the post dated January 3, 2015 something about money-less societies that do not use trade or barter. I’ve heard of that before and think of that as a sort of utopia. Recently, though, I heard from a different source, not you, that it would not be utopia but instead simply the natural order of things.

Is a truly money-less system, without trade and without barter, the natural order of things?

Higgins:     To give freely of oneself for one’s greatest happiness and expansion is the natural order. It is what God does. Use money or trade and barter or don’t. If you do choose to use money use it gently.

Received January 3, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Does Money Have Value?

Question:     Does money have value? I’m not asking about how much a dollar is worth, I refer instead to the concept of money.

Higgins:     Money is a useful tool. Money is compact, portable and easily traded for goods and services. It is however also perfectly acceptable to construct a money-less system. Both have advantages. A money-less system that does not involve trade or barter supports the greatest potential for expansion of the mind.

The most important thing, really, for you to consider regarding money is whether it is worth the value you give it. It is a man-made construct and should be taken lightly and used as the tool it is. Money is not inherently evil but has come to be used inappropriately much of the time. The more important thing to consider is whether each of you has found your happy thing. If you have, money is likely flowing easily and being used as the relatively unimportant but convenient tool that it is.

Received January 3, 2015 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

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Quoting Henry Ford

Cheryl:     I got scolded this morning. Here it is…..

Higgins:     “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t–you’re right.”
~Henry Ford~

Each of you has Spirit Guides that assist you in achieving your goals. They do so by inspiring interest within. Subsequently, you are guided by your emotions as to whether you are moving in the right direction or the wrong direction….sort of like a game of Hot and Cold.

You all receive the impulses just fine. You all receive the guiding emotions just fine. You simply do not follow them to the letter. Then you complain because life isn’t the way you want it to be. Our response is as Yoda said, “Do or do not. There is no try.”

Romans 8:28 King James Version ~ And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to his purpose.

Each of you is “called” by inspiration and inclination to a “purpose” (thing that will bring you happiness when you do it, develop skill to do it well, and do it with heart). “Loving God” means loving yourself, trusting yourself enough to follow your call with all your heart, mind and soul. We tell you absolutely that if you do this, the Universe will move for you. “All things working together for good to them that love God” is the Universe moving to accommodate your needs and desires as the reflection of God that you are.

Envision a picture of a magnificent snowy mountain reflected in a still lake.  God is the beautiful snowy mountain. The Earth realm is the still lake. You are the reflection of the mountain in the lake. The more you love God (as defined in the previous paragraph) the clearer, purer your reflection in the lake.

You are loved and respected. Hold love and respect for yourself. Then act accordingly.

Do not quaver. Do not flinch. Just do it and do it with kindness.

Received December 26, 2014 at Lake Goodwin, Washington  USA

 

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