Where Is Mankind Heading? (Part Two)

Question:    Where is mankind heading?

Note from Cheryl:     part one was published September 26, 2012

Higgins:     Understand that mankind is on a journey to reconnect with their personal source of eternal wisdom. The Earth itself and all things upon it, whether rocks or bees, are sentient beings. The Earth is on a journey of self-unfolding just as you are and in its process of self-discovery and self-actualization the Earth is speeding up. It is not zooming along faster in its orbit, instead the body of the Earth is vibrating faster.

Think of a single molecule. Each molecule vibrates its own rate. The Earth vibrates, too. In what is being called The Shift of The Ages all that is happening is that the Earth’s vibration is increasing.

What this means for mankind is that mankind (and all other beings upon the planet) must increase the speed of their vibration to match the Earth’s new vibration. Any beings not matching the Earth’s new vibration will be figuratively thrown off, like a cowboy tossed from the back of a bucking horse.

Humans are capable of vibrating within a range from slower to quicker. These vibrations are experienced as emotions. Slow emotions feel like depression and disabling fear, mid-range vibrations encompass rage/anger/frustration/impatience while quicker vibrations feel like hope, happiness and compassion.

With planet Earth’s increase in vibration mankind must improve their own vibration to stay upon the planet. What this means for mankind is that the lowest range of emotion  any of you will be able to carry will be higher than before and therefore the most negative of emotions will not be attainable.

Where is mankind heading? To answer that we ask you: what will mankind be able to envision, to create and to live when the slowest, most uncomfortable emotions no longer exist, when the midrange emotion is hope rather than anger and when the higher end emotions are beyond bliss?

Where is mankind heading? You tell us what you want to do, what you want to create and what sort of life you want to live….then we’ll all know…for you are creating what is to come right now.

Received October 2, 2102 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

From Cheryl:    Go to higginsandco.bandcamp.com. There is a 15 minute musical meditation called Earthbliss Relaxation. Meditate to this to experience the new Earth vibration that is coming soon!

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I Don’t Feel Compassion For My Husband

Question:     I don’t feel compassion for my husband.

Higgins:     Compassion is a wonder-full emotion. A heart filled with this emotion is a happy heart. The development of compassion is all about you and you living life fully and in harmony with your True Being. We encourage its cultivation.

To begin, we want you to understand that nothing is wrong with your husband. He is perfect in every way. If he exhibits behavior other than loving, kind, generous, gently humorous, fun-loving and wise then he simply reflects a life out of balance with his True Being. All of you carry these fine characteristics. Each of you also carries not so fine characteristics.

The development of compassion is all about knowing in a deep and abiding way that all humans are pure, sincere, heart beings. It is knowing that life is a difficult game and that each of you gets off-track from time to time.

Most (but not all) physicals live their entire lives significantly out of synch with their own Eternal Truth. If one is to become disaligned the disalignment from one’s Eternal Being begins about 6 months of age, sometimes earlier, and is quite marked by about 10 years old. Further significant disalignment occurs through the remainder of school age years and 20’s when socialization is occurring. This is a general rule rather than a hard rule.

Knowing the beauty of your own soul, knowing the beauty of your husband’s soul and knowing that neither of you had any control over the powers that helped disconnect you from your personal sources of eternal wisdom allows compassion to surface within you. Remember that you yourself do not manufacture emotions. Emotions are offered by your source of eternal wisdom, your Broader Being, relative to the thoughts you think, the words you speak and the actions you commit.

So when your husband exhibits behavior that is unappealing your reaction needs to be to remind yourself that he is a beautiful, wise soul on such a difficult life journey that he has begun to express the not so beautiful part of himself which he would only do if he were really struggling. Get this part: another person only exhibits negative behavior if they are really struggling with the difficulty of the Earth experience.

Developing compassion is about you reconnecting to your source of eternal wisdom. When you know for sure that hardship often leads to behavior that is out of synch with the eternal beauty that each of you is, it is much easier to relax. When you relax about anything positive emotion swells to the surface of your conscious being.

This is how one develops compassion.

Received October 2, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Elevating Self-Esteem

Note from Cheryl:     Higgins is answering this question in parts. Read How to Help Self-Esteem published September 29, 2012 before proceeding with this response.

Question:     Hi Higgins. Do you have any advice on how to help self-esteem? Especially to attract a romantic partner?

Higgins:     The first step in elevating self-esteem is to regain energetic and emotional balance. We explained how to do that in a previous response. We encourage you to practice this. It will help you feel stronger and that is a desirable beginning.

The next step is to begin paying attention to thoughts and the way you feel with each thought.

Your Eternal Being constantly monitors thoughts, words and actions offering emotion relative to everything. This means that the moment thinking starts emotions start rolling and there goes the energetic balance you’ve only just regained.

Actively notice the emotion that each thought brings. If a thought brings negative emotion change the thought until the emotion that comes with it feels stronger. The stronger emotion produced by the new thought means the thought is true for you where negative emotion means the thought is not true for you.

For example, let’s say you’ve finished dressing and are standing in front of a mirror. Your outfit does not look as good as you thought it would and you do not like what you see. You say to yourself, “I am ugly.” A negative emotion will arise because your Broader Being does not support this thought. Search around in your mind for another thought such as, “This outfit doesn’t flatter me.” A more neutral or even slightly more positive emotion will arise because this thought is true. If you then follow-up with action and change into a more flattering outfit you will then look in the mirror and realize an uplifted heart.

Each time you are able to connect a thought to resultant negative emotion then change the thought to that which is Truth for you energetic balance is maintained.

At first almost constant attention is required to stay balanced. Each time you notice that your mind has slipped into negative thinking find energetic balance then search for the thought that is true. With practice you will discover that stopping to regain energetic balance in itself stops other thoughts thus producing a neutral mind. Searching for thoughts that are true will move your thoughts in a positive direction. If thoughts do not move positively then re-balance and begin again.

Thoughts that feel positive are true for you and thoughts that feel negative are untrue for you. You can count on this every thought, every word, every action, every time from now until then end of your days on Earth. No exceptions.

Keep in mind that stronger emotion produced by new thought means the thought is true for you. Each person has their own Truth and what is true for you may not be true for someone else. Only you knows what is right for you and you do not know what is right for anyone else (not even your children and we’ll talk about that in another segment).

Acting from this place of Truth will lead each of you on your respective journeys. You will become clear about who you are and at the same time realize that each has their own Truth that is equally beautiful, if different from yours. When you live life clearly like this you radiate an inner confidence that is very attractive. From this place of confidence friends and romantic partners will be easy to find for they will draw towards you like moths to light.

Received October 1, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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How to Help Self Esteem

Question:     Hi Higgins.  Do you have any advice on how to help self-esteem?  Especially to attract a romantic partner?

Higgins:     Yes. Let’s start with elevating self-esteem.

Each of you is a segment of a Broader Being. Your Broader Self holds in mind a vision of you in your perfection and always recognizes you as beautiful, courageous, capable and smart. Many times you physicals do not recognize yourselves this way. When you do not recognize your own beauty, courage, capability and intelligence you set up a discordant note between you and your Broader Being that doesn’t feel good.

Low self-esteem is one of many discordant notes that may harbor within you and they are all addressed the same way. Any time negative emotion arises within the first thing to do is instruct your energy to stay with you. A simple statement such as, “I want my energy to stay with me,” is enough to slow the energy hemorrhaging from you. Usually, this statement will stop the energy loss immediately but sometimes, when you feel very low, it may take making the statement twice or even three times before the energy loss ceases.

In any case, the energy loss will cease within seconds to minutes and improvement is immediate.

Sit for a moment allowing energy to flood your being. When you feel extremely low it may take up to 10 minutes to feel full but in most cases you will feel much better in 30-60 seconds. Within a few minutes you will fill up like a cup overflowing with water. Direct this energy to flow harmoniously through you. It will. It is helpful to develop a statement such as, “I choose that my energy shall flow harmoniously through me so that I may live joyfully, expressing the Truth of my Being from this physical perspective.”

Each time you feel in any way out of sorts (hurried, harried, impatient, frustrated, angry, insulted, fearful, embarrassed, low or depressed) use this technique to re-set your personal energy. Master this for there is no quicker or more solid way to re-align with eternal wisdom.

Developing self-esteem will take practice so spend some time with this and we will provide the next step when you’ve had time to absorb this.

Received September 29, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Does Higgins Have Any Advice For Me Finding A Great Job Fast?

Question:     Does Higgins have any advice for me finding a great job fast??

Higgins:     Friend, remember the life you are living now  is a result of the thoughts and emotions you’ve been emitting about work for the last several years. In a way today (and everyday) is a test result. The life you live today is in large part a result of the thoughts (let’s call those thoughts desires) and emotions you’ve held for the last several years. If the desires you hold have been met with emotions that support your desire then right now you have a terrific job.

Once emotion matches desire the desire manifests quickly (minutes, days, weeks, months).

Rather than try to help you with something that is just a little beyond your reach today let’s help you focus instead on procuring a job that is OK. Maybe it won’t be the job of your dreams but at least one that will help pay the bills.

(Before we go further let us assure you that you are on the right track to attain the life of your dreams. You simply have not arrived there yet.)

The first step in attaining a job is to simply relax. Right now, with all the bills piling up and your desires frustrated, stop. Relax. Breathe. Now is not the time to create the job for you have done that in your past. Now is the time to manifest that which you have created.

Draw your energy back into yourself by saying something such as, “I want my energy to stay with me.” Shortly, you will feel better. As soon as you do direct your energy by saying something like, “I desire that my energy shall flow harmoniously through me that I may experience life in my happiest Truth.” You may also wish to specifically summon your Spirit Guides to assist you in attaining a job that you would like.

From this place of centeredness listen inwardly to the communication that bubbles forth. You will be prompted towards some action. Take action only from a centered place. Each time you become off-center step back, realign the energy flow and start again.

Once you have procured a job and the money begins to flow and basic needs are met then resume the creation process toward the job of your dreams. Settling for an OK job may seem like a backwards step but it is very difficult to attain a dream when the emotion you carry is worried about meeting basic needs.

The fun part of this is that in procuring this OK job you will then begin to notice how many things about this new job are very much in alignment with the job of your dreams and you’ll find you’re not so very far away after all.

Received September 27, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Where Is Mankind Heading? (Part One)

Question:    Where is mankind heading?

Higgins:     Only one thing exists anywhere and that thing is the Prime Source of all life. There are many names for this Source; God, Goddess, Allah, Creator, Great Spirit. Regardless of name Source is the creative beginning of everything including you.

When you ‘leave’ the non-physical realm for the physical journey you step another level away from Prime Source. The expectation is that within the physical realm you will remain fully connected to the Wisdom of the Universe. What happens instead is most of you experience static in the line of communication between you and your Eternal Wisdom, in essence becoming disconnected from Source.

Mankind is on a journey to reconnect with Source. Most of you die in order to reconnect but that is not necessary and in fact mankind wishes to reconnect from the physical perspective.

The Bible, Genesis, Chapter 5, Verses 21-24: the life of Enoch is described briefly. Words vary depending upon the Bible version chosen yet the idea remains the same: Enoch lived in close communication with God and Enoch never died. God took Enoch.

Generally speaking it is the goal of each and every Soul that chooses to experience a physical life as human to walk so closely connected to their Source that when the time comes to return to non-physical they simply cease to exist in the physical format, the way that Enoch did.

Received September 26, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Emotional Crashes

Question:    It seems that when I feel I’m focusing pretty well on the positive and feeling pretty good something always happens to bring me crashing down (emotionally). Why is that?

Higgins:     Envision a piano keyboard. Each key represents a note from low on the far left to high on the far right. Humans are much like a keyboard: they can express a range of emotion from low to high.

Emotions are expressed to the Universe as vibration. In much the same way that a stone tossed into water sends out expanding concentric circles upon the surface of the water each emotion that you experience sends out expanding concentric wave forms into the Universe.

Lower vibrations are slower and tend to not feel very good and higher vibrations are faster and tend to feel positive.

Each of you has the capacity to experience, to feel, each emotional note upon the human keyboard. However, it is very common to develop what we call an emotional set point. By set point we mean an emotion that is easy to reach that is a sort of fall back point.

When you drive down the freeway and see and feel the grooves in the pavement where cars have driven that is what we mean by set point. You’ve driven in this particular emotional spot so much that it has worn a sort of groove and it’s easiest to coast along in that emotional groove than to move either direction for moving out of the groove can be quite bumpy.

When you focus intentionally on the positive you are moving from your set point of something less positive. Unlike a keyboard in which you can touch one key far left and then one key far right emotions cannot be skipped over. You may race through them very quickly from time to time, like dragging the thumbnail over the keyboard from one end to the other but you cannot move the set point by jumping. Each emotion must be acknowledged between your set point and the emotion you’d like to reach and the deeper the groove you’ve worn the more emotionally painful it may be to do that.

That is why it seems that when you are focusing pretty well on the positive and feeling pretty good something happens to bring you crashing down emotionally. You’ve simply expanded too many vibrational/emotional notes beyond your set point.

Much like muscle-building you must make regular effort to achieve goals. Each effort to seek the positive emotions helps move you up the scale a little at a time. Depending upon how entrenched you are in your set point it could take years of practice to move well up the scale. Some people will move easily and quickly up the scale and some will convince themselves they are higher on the scale than they are thus inhibiting their expansion.

Those who over-estimate their emotional set point have the most difficult time moving up emotionally.

The most important thing to note is that while it may take some time to achieve the full benefit of this practice, each time you seek the better feeling you feel better. Feeling better positively reinforces the desire to keep trying. This is important because those down times can be very bitter when you are steadily becoming used to feeling good.

Remember in those down times to allow yourself to feel down. Do not dwell in the down times but do allow yourself to grieve for that acknowledgment of the depth of your emotion is processing time that will assist you in taking your next emotionally forward step.

Received September 25, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Tired of Being Spoken Down To

Offering from Higgins:

Many of you are tired of being spoken down to. While you may not like our response to this we assure you that you do have the power to gently but firmly change the way people treat  you.

Interaction between two people is always a combined effort (albeit often unwittingly)between the two, regardless of whether you’ve ever met the other person before or have any understanding of how this could possibly be.

Life experience, including the way others respond to you, is drawn towards you by the vibration you carry. If you present yourself with calm certainty no one will ever speak down to you because you will not be (unwittingly) inviting them to do so.

Calm certainty will not suddenly emanate from you. Calm certainty comes from developing confidence in one’s own self. Each of you is a unique and capable being and there are infinite right ways and no wrong ways to proceed when living your life. When you come to understand that your way is right and that their way is right and that there exists within the Universe room for both you lose the quavering instability that draws negativity from others.

Standing in your confidence never needs anger or harshness for success. Standing in your confidence feels easy and graceful and kind. Developing this self assuredness takes a little time and persistence and we assure you it will be worth the small but continual efforts you exert.

Received September 24, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Why Do People Always Turn Against Me?

Question:     Why do people always turn against me?

Higgins:      We want you to recognize that people do not always turn against you. Perhaps people turn against you often but not always. When you set your mind and thoughts in the pattern of anything always being so then you begin turning the forces of the Universe in the same direction. The force that is the Universal flow is infinitely powerful. When you enlist the Universe on your behalf there is very little work to be done for the infinite power of the Universe flows in your direction and carries with it the answer to all your desires.

Whether you are aware of it or not your ‘desires’ are continually transmitted to the Universe and responded to. Always. Every time. No exceptions.

For clarity, let’s call your desires a request. You make a request of the Universe, the Universe responds.

Here’s the catch: requests are sent out to the Universe as vibration (waveform). You cannot cease to send out requests because vibration comes to you in the form of emotion or the way you feel about any given thing. That feeling radiates through you and out into the Universe much the way a stone tossed into water creates ripples along the surface of the water.

Whether the vibration you send out is positive or negative the Universe acknowledges it and responds.

The Universe responds in like kind.

That means the Universe reads you as, “People always turn against me.” The Universe can do no other than respond in like kind and so you will find that people seem to turn against you more and more often.

The next time this occurs acknowledge how uncomfortable and discouraging it is to feel as though others turn against you. As soon as you can, as soon as you are emotionally able, begin to change your offering to the Universe. Decide to choose new descriptive words and allow your thoughts to flow this way:

-People always turn against me! I hate when people turn against me! It makes life so hard!

-Well, maybe they don’t always turn against me. It does seem that they do turn against me often, though.

-One thing’s for sure: I’d like to feel better. I’d like to have people work with me on some things. In fact, someone did recently and it feels so natural to have someone flow with me that I barely recognized that they did. I’d like more experiences like that one.

Now what you have done is acknowledge where you are and used that experience to shift your thoughts to what you would rather have happening in your life. This is all that life experience is about. Life is about contrast. Contrast is desirable so that you can decide what you like and what you don’t like. Then, by turning your thoughts to what you do want, you can energetically enlist the aid of the Universe. The Universe will now do all the hard work and shortly you will notice yourself flowing more harmoniously through life.

Received September 23, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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How Do I Nurture Compassion In My Marriage?

Question: How do I nurture compassion in my marriage?

Higgins: The simplest way to promote a harmonious relationship of any kind is to spend a moment every day contemplating one thing you genuinely like about the other person. It takes only a few moments of time and stimulates positive Universal flow between the two of you. No amount of ‘working’ on a relationship will do more good than this one simple task.

To specifically nurture compassion in a relationship remind yourself that each of you is the essence of harmony, peace and love itself. Any thoughts, words or behavior expressing anything other than harmony, peace and a deep and abiding appreciation for life simply are expressions of a body/soul out of synch.

It is much easier to  feel compassion for another when you remind yourself how very hard this physical game is…so hard that it can throw the most brilliant and loving of beings into discord.

Received September 22, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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