Never Work For Pay

Posted on September 18, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Offering from Higgins:

Never work for pay. Work instead to make  your heart happy. Let the money follow.

For some of you this will seem radical, as though you must quit your current job immediately. Not so. Start with an attitude shift. Gently peer into your soul and find the beautiful reasons your current job helps create happiness in your life. This will help shift your thought patterns allowing your mind to relax around the topic of work.

Mental relaxation is a most important goal for once you’ve decided what you want in life It (whatever It is) arrives most easily and smoothly when one’s mind is relaxed and content.

With this new clarity on the positive aspects of work and a relaxed mind the Universe will serendipitously open doors to your greater happiness.

Received September 15 and 18, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Likes and Follows

Posted on September 15, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

We have some new followers and I thank you all very much for like-ing and for following Ask Higgins. Higgins loves questions and questions drive their ever evolving development.

There is no fee or anything like that for our responses, we just love to do this. Feel invited to ask questions of Higgins at cherylorhiggins@hotmail.com.

Blessings everyone,

Cheryl

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Marriages That Just Exist

Posted on September 13, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Question: Higgins, will you speak about marriages that just exist? You know, where there seems to be no love left but the couple stays together anyway?

Higgins:

When two come together in marriage there is initially a drawing together. In that initial stage of attraction each of you sees in the other positive qualities and focuses so intently upon the things you like about that person that more of those positive behaviors are exhibited. Further, in that initial stage there is a mutual flow of energy back and forth so that each feels stronger than before two came together.

As time passes two things occur: negative behaviors surface that were not noticed before and one person invariably draws more energy than the other leaving the one drawn from energetically exhausted and resentful yet unaware as to why.

Once one or both of you begin to focus upon negative behaviors then those things are exhibited more frequently.

All relationships can suffer from these two phenomenon, not just marriages.

When two become discontent in this way the closeness leaves and should the two choose to stay in the marriage then that feeling of simply existing may arise. Should you find yourself in this situation there is rather a simple fix. Improvement can occur if only one person focuses upon change although if both participate then it is often easier to make positive change.

First, learn to keep your energy balanced. Physical animation stems primarily from your broader, eternal self. Direct your energy to flow from head to toe, grounding in the Earth. While this is a simplistic view of energy flow it works well to promote understanding. When a person’s energy flows from Source then no other person will be drained by their presence.

Second, choose a marriage that is fulfilling and satisfying. By ‘choose’ we mean to make the decision that a fulfilling and satisfying marriage is for you. This kind of mental leaning is an indicator to the Universe and is very powerful in the creative process.

Relax in your marriage the way it is, with all its warts and difficulties, while continually leaning towards this outcome. Impulses and intuition will lead you towards thought, word and action that will lay a foundation for a fulfilling and satisfying marriage.

Received September 13, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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My Husband Isn’t Compassionate

Posted on September 9, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Offering from Higgins secondary to a web search that brought a reader to our site. The search was for ‘husband isn’t compassionate’.

Higgins: We do understand why you may feel that your husband isn’t compassionate. A person whom you observe from day-to-day not expressing compassion would easily be viewed as not compassionate. What we’d like to share with you is a different view of the situation.

All of you are beings of light and energy and you communicate with all that exists within the Universe via vibrational offerings. These vibrational offerings can also be called emotions or even feelings. (Emotions and feelings vary but for the purposes of this explanation let’s view them as the same.) Emotions are offered by your Broader eternal self relative to your thoughts, words and actions. There is a range of emotions that can be experienced by a human that ranges from low and slow, like guilt and depression, to light and high, like happiness or immensely satisfied. Compassion is an emotion/feeling on the higher end of the emotional spectrum and there is not one among you who is not capable of experiencing the entire range of emotions including compassion.

Your husband, like you and all other humans, does encompass compassion. His is capable of experiencing and expressing compassion just as he is capable of experiencing and expressing impatience, anger and discouragement.

Your husband is compassion. He just isn’t capable of expressing it right now because it is a vibrational offering higher than he is currently capable of receiving/achieving.

En masse, you physicals have forgotten the rules of the game and that makes Life a very difficult game indeed. If you will gently remind him of his inherent completeness, his inherent power and his inherent ability to create the life of his choice he will sooner or later begin to exhibit the more positive feeling emotions. His behavior will become gentler and kinder because he will come to know that he is in control of his life and that the Universe has designed Earth to support you all in easy, fun abundance.

The trick is: you will likely have very little success if you tell him this directly.

Instead, you must learn to remain centered in his disquiet. You must look for qualities you like in him and focus upon those positives. You must learn, and come to believe, that this life is designed to be fun and easy and that all  you need do is relax and enjoy where you are right now while continuously identifying all the good new things you’d like to experience.

Relax. The better you are able to relax the more OK life will seem to be and as you relax your husband will relax and as he relaxes his compassion will be able to rise to the surface to be expressed.

Received September 9, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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I Want My Wife To Stay With Me

Posted on September 4, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Offering from Higgins relative to an internet search for ‘I want my wife to stay with me’ that brought a reader to our site.

Higgins prompts me to add that if you want your wife to stay with you read the response entitled ‘My Wife Doesn’t Like Me (a second answer)’ after you read this post.

Higgins:

In the process of creating the life of your dreams, knowing what you want is an important step. We applaud your clarity.

When creating involves another person factors outside yourself come into play, specifically, what she wants is up to her. If she is centered in her own being then what you want should never affect her. Understand, ye, that unless she too wants to stay in the marriage the both of you will have a primarily discordant time together.

We know that when you determine something like ‘I want my wife to stay with me’ that what you also mean is that you want to stay together in harmony and fulfilling contentedness. To that end, determine what it is that you specifically like about marriage. Determine what qualities you like in a life partner. Bring yourself into alignment with those things and you will find yourself in a marriage with a partner who suits you very well indeed. That person may or may not be the wife you are with now but you will be in a marriage that is harmonious and fulfilling.

To come into alignment with your desires first begin by maintaining your own energy. Do that by developing your own energy source. Each of you is animated by a Broader Being. All That Exists is energy and energy flows through you via this connection to Broader. No other person or thing can provide enough energy to fill you. You will always be dissatisfied when you depend upon another for your energy supply.

Practice directing your personal energy to flow harmoniously through you with intention to live your happiest Truth every moment of every day. Direct and re-direct your energy as often as needed. When you carry your energy with this sort of harmony none other can negatively affect your life and likewise you affect none other in a negative way.

You will find yourself feeling better and likely discover that you are easier, smoother, more comfortable to be around when your energy is carried this way.

Received September 4, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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My Wife Doesn’t Like Me (a second answer)

Posted on September 3, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Offering from Higgins relative to an internet search for, ‘My wife doesn’t like me’, that brought a reader to our site.

Higgins: When faced with a situation like this one, one in which another is offering a vibration of negativity directed towards you, the most obvious and simple solution is to move your physical self away from the negativity.

Each of you is programmed to want to feel good so this is a quick and easy solution to get yourself back into a vibrational place that feels good.

There are myriad reasons, though, that a person would choose to stay within this negative feeling relationship. Should you choose to stay you have two options: find a way to feel better or keep feeling bad. Feeling bad leads to all sorts of negative life expression including ill-health so we strongly recommend finding a way to feel better.

The first process to master is centering yourself each time you feel negativity arising within you. When thinking about your wife’s displeasure of you, center yourself. Each time you feel that ugly negativity oozing from your wife, center yourself.

Centering can be accomplished by simply stating, “I want my energy to stay with me.” Thus your energy will flow within you rather than being given to your wife, who needs to develop her own flow of energy rather than feeding off of your energy.

You will immediately feel a little stronger. When your energy stays within you it takes only a matter of 30-60 seconds before energy is restored and you feel better. Then state, “I want my energy to flow in harmony with my happiest Truth.”

You now have regained control of your own energy and beseeched the Universe to assist you in flowing towards whatever is happy and right for you whether or not you even know what happy and right for you is.

This is a very important step, this regaining of energetic stability, because you now have a palpably greater sense of stability and power. From a centered energetic point you are never a victim and neither your wife or any other can treat you like one when you are stable this way. They may say the same things, they may shoot the same negative energy but your response is steady, strong in self, gently and kindly powerful and you are not affected by another’s negativity the same way as before. Instead you are steady, strong, confident, gentle and possessing a kind and healing sense of humor.

If you feel any sort of negativity you are not centered. Period. Re-center yourself as often as necessary…and that may be hundreds of times a day at the onset.

Once practicing this energetic stability you are in a better emotional space from which to decide whether this relationship with your wife is one you wish to continue. If it is we recommend this simple daily practice: think of one thing that you genuinely like about your wife. Think of one thing about her that you truly appreciate and do it every day for the remainder of your marriage.

These two practices will be all you need to begin drawing from her the things you have always liked in her. Your relationship will improve with no effort on your part other than the effort required to remind oneself to center regularly and to think up something nice about your wife.

There is no need to do work to please your wife and since no amount of effort on your part could ever please a person who is generally displeased this is a good thing.

The next step is to create harmony in your home and you can do that by simply doing one chore a day with the intent to create harmony in your household. You may do a hundred chores a day but do at least one with intent to create harmony. It may be that the dishwasher needs to be unloaded. You don’t want to do it but you know that neither does she. Do it. See a scrap of paper on the floor that shouldn’t be? If it bugs you it will bug her, too, and that is how you know which of that day’s ‘chores’ is the one that will intentionally create the harmony you seek.

So that’s it, Friends, the way to a happy and harmonious relationship.

Received September 3, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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World Healing Meditation on Law of Attraction Radio Network

Posted on August 28, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Note from Cheryl: Check out Law of Attraction Radio Network Friday, August 31 at 6PM PST for an amazing meditation opportunity.  Read the letter from Jewels, of Law of Attraction Talk Radio, below…..

Love Frequency Healing Hour Shifting from Fear to Love
Dear Energy Healers,

We at the Network believe that this action has been divinely inspired to assist the ocean of consciousness to shift into love.

On Friday, August 31 at 6 PM PST (GMT-7:00) we will broadcast our first hour of high frequency healing with some of the finest energy healers on the planet today.

It would be wrong for me to instruct you on how to deliver this energy, for you truly know best on assisting listeners to release their painful past and to expand into a joyful, abundant, peaceful  and healthy future.  So it would be better for me to simply give you details of what to expect during the hour.

In the beginning, we will be using the six Solfeggio Frequencies:
UT – 396 Hz – Liberating Guilt and Fear RE – 417 Hz – Undoing Situations and Facilitating Change MI – 528 Hz – Transformation and Miracles (DNA Repair) FA – 639 Hz – Connecting/Relationships SOL – 741 Hz – Awakening Intuition LA – 852 Hz – Returning to Spiritual Order

Then we will move on to more contemporary music of piano music, singing and celebration followed at the tail of the program using more Solfeggio Freqencies.  We believe that combining different music will keep many feeling comfortable and uplifted.

Quantum Physics tells us that there is no space or time continuum.  From past experiences we have seen that energy becomes embedded within the recording and actually continues to build with every listener, especially when we set our intention to do so.    The light  surrounding this recording grows larger and larger with POWERFUL love.

After it is energized during the 6PM hour, I will have this replayed at 6 AM where more energy will be delivered by those who may be in a better time zone to do this.

Both recordings will be broadcasted every day for the next month here:  http://loaradionetwork.com . This will not be on any mobile app or Itunes, only on our home page where people can listen through their computer. Having this restriction will allow people to tune in the moment with their intention of healing. We are hoping that you will be coming back from time to time to add more energy to recording… either in the AM or PM.

We will be instructing the listener to simply relax and bring to mind certain fears that they would like to release and then to immediately to begin dreaming a future of great joy and happiness.   We believe this to open certain neuropathways making the shift easier to obtain.

We will be starting out our worldwide campaign on Thursday to bring in as many people as we can to listen and feel your energy upon it.

If you have a group of Energy Healers that you are associated with, will you ask them if they would like to participate?

One final thing, there were many who do not feel the need to be named on the website, BUT for those who do, please be sure I have your full name and ONE link to your website that is in the category of HEALING.  I definitely want to give credit to all of those who are serving humanity through love.

Thank you so much for participating in our ongoing event.  We are so blessed to have you in the world!  M

May the shift begin.

Jewels

Law of Attraction Radio Network

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Living a Self Centered Life

Posted on August 27, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Offering from Higgins:

Living one’s own life from a completely self-centered perspective is perhaps the healthiest thing one can do for oneself and indeed for the well-being of mankind as a whole.

Each of you is an eternal being of great wisdom. Your Eternal Self guides you through life by offering emotions to the thoughts, words and actions you commit. If you will follow life’s path using your emotions as guides not only will you thrive, your actions will also be good for those around you.

Following your emotions means allowing each emotion to move through you, allowing all emotions and shunning none. Once you’ve savored an emotion you will understand whether the thought, word or action you have just committed is in harmony with the Truth that your Eternal Self holds for you. Harmonious emotions feel hopeful and uplifting where non-harmonious emotions feel draining and dampening.

If it be your primary intent to live in your Truth thus always moving towards thoughts, words and actions that produce positive emotion to rise within you then will you offer the best of yourself to the world. The world will benefit by you offering the best of you because the best of you is fun, smart, creative, healthy, helpful, prosperous and kind.

Received August 27, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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I Don’t Know How to Have Fun Conversations

Posted on August 25, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Question: I don’t know how to have fun conversations.

Higgins: Much in the way of conversation skills can be acquired with practice. Fun conversations, though, are a by-product of a light heart. If your heart is not light attempts at fun conversations will typically fail.

Those with a light heart see humor and ease everywhere and this is reflected in their conversation.

To develop a light heart first one must have an awareness and desire to do so. Then one announces to one’s Soul Self something along the lines of, “I want to live life with a light and happy heart.” You might also add, “And I want my conversation to reflect my light and happy heart.” Then start looking for the best in everything.

It takes practice but in time you will notice you are prompted to add more positive, light comments to conversations. Allow the shift to occur naturally. There is no need to expend effort on anything other than applying a steady intention toward your desire for conversation that reflects your light and happy heart.

In time and in very natural progression you will begin to notice things differently and your conversation will reflect the change in your mood.

Received August 25, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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Stop Pretending That Life Is Hard

Posted on August 24, 2012 by Cheryl Jensen

Offering from Higgins:

Life is really very easy.

When you dread something like going to a party for example, you set up a vibration that gives the Universe a message. The Universe always responds to the things you tell it. Moreover, so does your body. If you do this sort of thing with enough gusto you will eventually draw unto you from the Universal Warehouse health issues that will keep you from attending that thing you dread. You will get a headache or some other ailment and thus have a ‘good excuse’ for not going to the party.

When you do this sort of thing you are pretending that life is hard. It isn’t. If you don’t want to go to the party don’t go. If work is making you feel awful find a new job. If your relationships suck the life from you extricate yourself from them.

Life is not hard. It is easy. The reason you pretend yourselves into sickness is to have a good excuse not to do things that do not feel right to you but that someone or many someones have coached you into believing are right for you. What is right for someone else is not necessarily right for you. Only you have the wisdom to know what is right for you.

Follow your own inner wisdom and stop pretending. Life is much easier than most of you allow it to be.

Received August 24, 2012 at Lake Goodwin, Washington

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